Do you know what hurts women more than adultery?

1. Real affection : Although physical affliction causes anger and pain, this kind of relationship may not necessarily have feelings. In the meanwhile, adultery says that your partner likes someone because he is "better" than you. This is very easy to hurt.

2. You are the third person right in your home : When they have real affair, you have the right to accuse them, pushing the traitor away. In the meantime, if you are on the side of an adulterous person, you will have the feeling that you are just a sideline, the 'obstacle' that makes the other two not reach each other.

3. Difficult to identify : True adultery is often easily revealed through messages, strange acts. But thoughtful adulterers can only be secretly in love with someone without being exposed. However, it caused the feelings between two people to be worn away gradually.

4. Make you look like a silly guy : You can't catch an affair. When you accuse your spouse, be rejected by your spouse, think you are paranoid, silly, think too much . make you very miserable. The more miserable is the husband (or wife) you can invite you to join the "dear brother, brother", at that time you easily fall into chaos difficult to control without understanding why. Obviously, they are just me, I have to raise.

Knowing her husband's affair, women should only do these two things

First: Courage to face the truth

Many women are afraid of losing their husbands, fearing that their families will be crushed and silently watching their husbands. They pretended to be ignorant, even though their husbands agreed to 'plug in' their wives while still being positive. In fact, what they kept was not a home, but an empty, rotten shell with a husband.

The best way to save a deceitful marriage is to face it frankly. Be brave to admit to yourself that 'my husband has an affair', please point straight at her husband and ask 'what do you want now'.

Second: Don't blame yourself

In marriage, adulterous people, whatever the reason, are wrong, who must receive the error. Women do not blame themselves, do not torture themselves with questions' why should my husband have an affair ',' I must have gone down so recently that my husband is bored and goes out to a fat cat ',' I need take care of him more attentively '. The more mistakes you make on your head, the deeper you will fall into the miserable, miserable hardship to stop.