Mother-in-law wants me raising stepchildren

(Adultery)-my husband's parents suggested the couple I picked the baby adopted, because it is my husband's blood drops, the same family home is on the line.
 
 
The couple were married for seven years, I have had 2 children, 1 son, 1 daughter. The couple income is not high, but relatively stable, we have to have a home of their own-my dream of many couples country founded on the city. Thought of happiness each day will entirely over, when the child grew, matured, then disaster struck again.
 

 

My husband's parents suggested the couple I picked the baby adopted, because it is my husband's blood drops, the same family home is on the line.

On one day in April 2013, a woman raised bed age phone for me, she said as I beg forgiveness for her daughter, for "eating is" with my husband. Initially I thought woman confused me with someone, because I believe her husband not promiscuous, but she insists she insisted, not mistakes. Me and her appointment in the Cafe and the story begins to open.

The woman then tells her daughter this year, 20s, there was a time she worked at the coffee shop, where my husband frequented drinking, and then the two men arose, the girl pregnant and born a son. Fear of my mother I found, so my husband was terminated with her daughter, not back again, only acquires deposits of parenting through her mother's account.
 
Will never have this meeting, and I also never learned of her husband's evil things as if her daughter just in case, raising children alone. But recently, she found a good man, they want to marry the girl doing my wife but with a condition not to be carrying children. She intended to send his mother tongue, but my husband doesn't want to, lest the family he knew his wife had a baby, will ban not to take, or have married about that story also did not respect his wife.
 
The girl had contact with my husband, thanks to you bring your child about pets, but I dare not, for fear my mother, and that's why moms meet me, to asked me to bring the child adopted.
 
It's all too clear, I asked about my husband and he admits it. But he explained he was the other girl set, were you at know pregnant for her money to go broke, but she did not break, now let her have to feed the children. I'm not responsible for anything. I also do not want to accept this child rearing, because that is the product of the betrayal of his wife, my husband with another woman. It's like a needle sharp points that, as seeing it as my heart is in pain.
 
But everything back to my husband's family, said she came to the couple and the baby pick-up suggestion about feed, because it is my husband's blood drops, is the line just like her home. She also advised me, husband and wife must have tolerance, forgiveness, she said lasting new process in raising the child, if money is tight, says she will support economically, not to worry.
 
To me, money is not the problem is too big, but raising a child's stepchildren with an other woman there to feed or not you, sister? No more common than I have to accept the burden and consequences of that betrayal?
 
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