My husband as 'no soul' when parting lover

When I know my husband affair, I think that's the biggest pain in his life. But not, it is just the beginning for the pain its tear behind. And now, I am each day, each hour witnessed her husband deceased, longing for her lover to stop.

If with a couple others, they came together in a hurry, the husband with her phéng somehow léng after marrying is easy to accept. But truly with my spouse that did much more horrible when we love each other to near 8 years then marry. As you learn, grew up together, love each other all these years, students, out of school, go to work, waiting for him to study abroad ... all the time making our feelings are folded into one of those admirable love story with many people.

Step on to the 12th year married, my husband's adultery. People suddenly one then I myself ten surprise.

When taken together, my husband very well. He is the person calmly, thoughtfully, never the wife, with child. How many years have we never quarrel. Every time there is something small, lightweight discord comments. If I am angry, he is im. You wait after I passed the new analysis to calming for me to understand. So many years, my family also continue my dream of many people.

But, to the 12th year married, my husband's adultery. People suddenly one then I myself ten surprise. He's still the same, still laboring, thoughtful, caring, that with his wife and child. A husband like that try, again, on how the year together, try to ask how I can think of is he affair. He himself had no abnormal signs at all. Still working right now, still with his wife ...

I just know everything when accidentally read a line that person's message through the mail of my husband. Because capital trust husband should your computer or personal phone of him I never touch. Only took me because my machine is broken so I borrow the machine. And then what I read made me extremely dizzy.

Words of the message line that nothing too far but I understand their relationships are not normal. Both also seem to be very miserable when unable to be together. I bring this question straight my husband and he was silent. Two days later, my husband actively confessed to me everything.

You say that you know the other was about more than 1 years. She was once married but they divorced. The two sides felt each other about everything. They look like people you tri Center, century together. Gradually, she grew up emotionally and they love each other at would not know. I asked two people has exceeded the limit yet then my husband said not yet. He brought me out to swear that they are just the relationship hub. They met each other, go out for coffee, but have never gone over the limit.

I asked do you love her then ... my husband is silent.

From the day it happened, me and my husband tried to find every way to warm affection.

1 the week after, my husband said he would end it with the other. My heart hurts like cutting when the saw her husband in love with another woman but awake, nine definitely think I know its not allowed to cross at this time. If I was selfish, I am ancient horns up demanding a divorce, only my family were killed. More of my husband and the person is still in acceptable levels is so what I need to do now is convince my husband returned, looking to him to love her again rather than do strain to then lost her husband.

From the day it happened, me and my husband tried to find every way to warm affection. And I travel alone, I often cook the dish that my husband likes ... But one thing I feel is that he's at least talking less, dipping, downs smiled. Sometimes he thought alone makes my heart hurt.

Already more than half a year from the day you ended with that person, I have a feeling her husband lived in the House as the body does. And then how this week he was ill, he man fever dream camp. In his delirium he called a woman. I remember, that's the name of that other person email address sent. I know, my husband cannot forget her.

Now I begin to see the real pain. Still in pain over all the feedback to know my husband's adultery. He's now not met the other but he's not forgotten. I think if they are adultery, they sleep together then perhaps easy to forget. But they respected each other, their extent with each other, they worship each other then perhaps that is love really.

I am suffering the Lam. I suffer not because her husband wasn't adultery because I realized that my husband loved that person truly. What should I do? The butter go live or to divorce her husband?=