Suffering because my husband betrayed but dare not make him lose face

I am 35 years old, 36 year old husband, married for nine years, has a 7 year old son, husband and wife are both faculty members of a University, economic stability, looks normal, I get people to be charming. In the home as well as at work I always love and respect. Before many people pursue but I choose you because trust in the love for me.

My husband is pretty handsome, way of life and interest to the family at a moderate level, even at infinity, I rarely pay attention to my feelings. One look at my family all say I'm lucky because there is every thing. In married life also occur in conflict but I think the family would do, I consent to this life.

I don't know they've been together ever since, when found out about this I'm suffering to the extreme.

The life no one comes before anything, stormy point down my family from when he started going to school away from home a year ago. Upon return, I discovered I have United, not in where he learned that right near my house, she is also a teacher and know my family. I don't know they've been together ever since, when found out about this I'm suffering to the extreme.

I still read the story of adultery and know the wife must suffer if her husband Bo, but couples are experiencing the feeling that new understanding of suffering. I read the message of her husband and United message to each other with the words love, full set, she called him her husband and claimed his wife despite living with my husband. I'm suffering, dazed, almost collapsed. To me, whether the couple have voices, the affair could not accept.

I still tell my husband if love no longer speak, I will deliver to you rather than not adultery, so that I cheated. When I discovered, he said nothing to her. I know your love is real foreign exchange through the message she sent him after they met. Your attitude main makes me frustrated. Her husband's family know about me and focus very reassured. The best friends also advised him about the expired but he just stopped for a few days, then a face made me believe, one side stayed in touch but I discovered.

What the family had so much influence to my work. There are today are taught to students that I as the person who takes the soul, sleepy, don't know what I'm talking about. Since when is assigned any task I finished very well, so that hour must try many new day complete. I repeatedly sought to talk to my husband, that you are only allowed to select one, or is my mother, or is the other woman but he remained silent.

I do not know they are plotting something. Maybe, they want to just keep my family, just like to adultery or want to come together but the wait time down because it did not want to bring the affair. If so, I saw my husband really cruel, I don't do anything at fault with him and the family that why dare you treat me like that. Really not fair to me.

I tried to forgive him because, each time thinking I don't have my dad as the definitive pieces.

I tried to forgive him because, each time thinking I don't have Dad's definitive pieces such as the intestines, more afraid his parents could not stand this. Tell me who your parent is the most difficult because of anxiety among the sisters. Parents also love my husband, always worried for our life both physical and emotional, dealing with her husband's family so I feel comfortable.

I am a woman living in the family, more inner life itself, always uphold ethical issues and personality in life as well as in the work.

With her husband, sometimes I felt tired but whether in the head never appeared a figure who other than you. I hate those unfaithful women and family interrupting others. I was too confident in her husband to now is a big disappointment, losing faith, including respect for the place.

Located next to my husband that I feel like strangers, change completely, no longer recognized him as the person I had loved, believed. I only blame themselves have put faith and love in the wrong place, he has trampled over confidence, my self-esteem.

The husband wanted to see her wife to talk but I understand she has a field, experience, sure she never admitted.

If her husband did to her husband, I also don't have any face that looked natural, yet he is also the father of my children, I don't want it to be ashamed because of his father. Intolerable attitude of my husband, I put the divorce but her husband does not register nor explains anything. Now my husband has back seats of learning, we considered as separated.

Both my husband and his girlfriend are both self third person breaks his own happiness and the happiness of the family. I really don't understand the personality ethic to go where. Now I am trying to be letting people know my family but still in pain to despair. I totally impasse, lost faith in life.

What happened to her husband's House and now only a few of his close friends know. Family, friends and neighbors who know nothing yet. It does not reduce should internalize I increasingly melancholy and tired. I would like to finish this to serene living and raising children but do not know how to do? We wish to receive your share of the sisters, who each in my circumstances.

Sincerely thanks.=

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