Why do men have beautiful wives, smart children, happy families but still go to couple?

Men tend to have more adultery than women. Some adulterers because they are not satisfied with their marriage, but according to Fatherly, most men are 'hungry for pho'.

The intention of male adultery is far different from that of women. Not that they "crave nostalgia" because they are unhappy with family life, but they feel that adultery will create a new feeling. They think that adultery is just a fleeting affair, that it is just playing and will end immediately when bored. They also think that they will easily escape the crime.

Adultery, theoretically makes men a bad father or husband, but strangely, this behavior is not related to affection and concern for men 's families.

Psychologist Robert Weiss said: 'They think that in addition to their affair, they are still responsible people, whom their wives and children can rely on. And what men can't understand is how women feel when they know there's a third person. '

During the consultative years for couples who fell apart because of adultery, Weiss found that, despite the pattern, men are considered good at fixing things, they are very bad at overcoming the damage. caused by adultery.

Because sex does not have a sacred meaning to them and may be available (many girls are willing to offer), men often do not measure the extent of hurting their partners from "eating pho". . For men who do not admit or are not found to be stealthy, recidivism is often for the same reason: Sex.

According to the 2017 US general social survey, about 20% of men admit adultery, compared with 13% of women. Fathers have more affair. It is estimated that about 10% of those who are about to become fathers betray pregnant wives. People also find that the ability of men to resist temptation is stronger when they are newly married and have a constant and intense life. While women are more likely to find suitable partners for their affair, men can pair with anyone who can.

Unlike chronic adulterous men who often originate from profound problems such as psychological distractions, sex addiction, sometimes healthy men are not pathological, just because they are immature. really. Weiss added: "Most men fall into the form of two schools: complete faithfulness and adultery once, realizing that it is due to lack of maturity and they learn from it."

Psychologist Weiss remembers a man who came to consult when he expressed his desire to have an affair with a colleague. He advised him to consider his marriage as a contract. If you want to have sex with others, you need to discuss it with your wife first in order to reach an agreement between the two. When thinking about this, the husband imagines his wife's reaction and the pain he can cause to his partner. As a result, he stopped the relationship outside the budding stream.

Experts say that only maturity, maturity and deliberate consideration can prevent men from adultery. "A mature man will always keep the image of a partner in his head and restrain himself so as not to do anything that hurts people who suffer with them for life," the psychologist said.