We were married was 9, then adultery with one she does not live with her husband and had a daughter. I see to speak once, she apologized and promised not to contact him anymore but they still continue. He adamantly demanded a divorce to me to be quick to publicly come up with hers. We divorced when the two new boys 6 and 3 years old (2006). At that time, the Court decided I kept and cared for sons, I take care of my son.
That day my husband's family is a pretty big business and renowned. Homes, land, cars, trucks ... a lot. When we heal the sweet broth rice, for whatever reason, the mother of my husband for all the members in each family whose name few homes, one-two pieces of land or the cars. Of course I'm not exception.
But my husband had heard the budding affair, the mother-in-law has pulled down a sheet of paper "loan", which has my name and signature of the person I borrowed Copier. At the same time she also make the signatures of two witnesses (photocopying).
The content that I've borrowed the money to buy the House..., land of..., the vehicle numbers ... and promised to return at any time to reclaim the loan side. I feel very miserable for mother-in-law at the time. She was worried to lose loss sleep lest I hugged a neat pile of assets that should go to the new strain of the brain to think the paper's controlling debt.
I myself when it is no longer the parents, the siblings who each have a private life, so I don't want to bother to anyone. I am not wealthy or well-off, but I understand enough to be something its not, then of course I don't get. So I was ready to sign the papers to name the House, land, car ... back to the mother-in-law. At the same time, she named me an apartment worth 425 million. I led her son out with a few hundred thousand in cash. Mother, I rented a small house to live.
Life when it really heavy for me, I have to handle just the job, just the House recently. Gradually, the number of females due to mother page has turn out to go to I cover everything. A few months later, I find the other apartment rental at the price of 4 million dong a month (I rented 2 million). Send me home, I ask the children and go to work to earn more money raising children.
Five years later, on a date, I get the phone 's son: "Mommy, Mommy go, you had to hit a triple." I removed most of the work, running even to his house, also has his mother there. As discussed with each other before, they are straight to the point is that I want to take the boy away. At that time, in the beginning I didn't think anything when you cry and hug my mom went with the claim.
I never forget the words you say then: "mother, mother lead the walk. I want to be in with the mother and children. I don't want to stay with three because of three hit a by roi and then rubbing my butt countless chilli salt to retire. The hurt ". On children also emerged the scars caused by the meat that the convex said it was wound up by three. Don't think anything further, I call upon the retrieved clothing and book and then take you away with the witness and the consent of the woman and the three.
Then I leave the more strenuous than for health care alone two children. Lots of hard work but also a lot of happiness. Every time the length of all three the same mother eat rice, you two talk, laugh at ourselves ... to a mother of three, then the same hug sleeping really delicious.
Nearly a year later, I filed an application to the Court to please get more custodial rights. I finally get to decide custody of both the subsidy amount along with the 1.5 million a month. Initially he only 500,000 subsidies, after a quarrel with the judge's comments have been up 1.5 million. At that time, the big boys grade 7. To date, the largest grade 10.
From divorce to date almost 10 years, on the birthday of the son did not get even a Mint from grandparents or relatives of Cabinet side. Lucky then one year you get several hundred thousand 1bvnd. very special new two was led away hitters grandmother bought two shirts, one for pants to wear the lunar new year.
Even my son, please message the three tens of thousand to load the phone, three have to ask this question, message through the message takes a few more thousand of the boy but last a thousand was also not given.
Talk about your child's monthly allowance money, first time I have to swallow the bitter spicy shut every time against England to sign the receipt of money, not the times without being said every light money speaking badly from his hand. I do not want to continue to touch your face should suggest bank transfer but you won't.
Then, I must come to the notary authorized to do thanks to sister receive money to help me. My relatives understood his temperament should also not want exposed. Each month to put money on him, calling for his sister through the messaging you get home even though the older sister and run the airport are very weak. The times that I have to carry her for fear of danger.
The fun you bring money, when you're on the right; When sad, you take a week or ten days late. Not a few times not just missing something, his message to me is "no money." Although there is money for his child but he embodied as a way the Broadcasting Board, alms.
I also know that after the divorce with me, immediately you marry her mistress that he had an affair at left in me. They lived together for about a year and then divorced also. Then, he slipped in the coffee beer, hug hug because he's very sexually addicted. My old neighbor who said "watch out you're HIV".
There are few times you go with your mother, you sit beside me, cuddling, kissing and then touch anywhere. Then I don't want to go with you. The children, they see and understand should say three if wish to both go out, don't do it with mom anymore, but there is a computer in your blood.
Despite wife before, now I was scared every time he touched me. Gently a little then I try to endure because the children are happy, then I'm more aggressive response back. Y like that after every time I do not let you touch me then instantly, the fun of the child be stopped, no matter where are or what you're doing.
He left without knowing how. I will then get a message heap sort is "Chảnh", "do the very precious so" or "not needed", "never gone" ... So, if I want to be all packed or see movies or play somewhere for piecemeal or silent sit still for do what you want. Not a few times you texting suggested I go with him. I didn't agree then, that as I have no money ...
For four years now since starting to receive your money, every month I have to see most of this story there that never was. Spent money bank transfer you, then I don't need to meet him and have to deal with such stuff. He absolutely does not bear deals by the Bank. I myself just worry about earning a living, just children, no time for yourself, how can I reverse-swept a ladies event and wait, if thanks to the intervention of the Court.
I'm really tired should write articles confided this to look forward to receiving the advice of the people, help me to find the solution in the best interests of the child, I myself am less tired minds to focus health but worry for the children.=