Being scolded by her mother-in-law and withdrawn for the foreigner because of the package of food, the bride secretly does this every meal

At the beginning after marriage, Thuy and her husband worked and stayed in the city while her mother-in-law still lived in the countryside. People told that the aroma near the fruit was not wrong, at that time the relationship between her and her mother-in-law was quite good. But things began to change when she moved to live with her husband and son for medical treatment.

Everyday, Thuy's husband went home to work early, so he took advantage of cooking and cleaning and she would wash dishes and wash clothes. Her mother-in-law first glared at her but later found that every day the daughter-in-law came home from work, she would just sit at the dining table, so she was uncomfortable to face:

- As a woman in the house, no matter how busy you are, you have to know the way to worry about the meal, but who will let her do it all! Mom is not evil, but it is boring.

- Yes. My job is too busy with him cooking, I clean up the nuts and I make him do it all. It is normal for a couple to share housework like that.

- Busy, you must try to arrange. Mom is that I don't agree with men going to the kitchen.

And from that day, Thuy's mother-in-law decided not to let her son go to the kitchen. Even if it was too late, she would wait for her to cook rice, so every afternoon she would like to run back and forth to take care of dinner.

After a while, Thuy's husband went to work for about 3 months, so she called her sister every week to help her sad. When she came back, she often prepared some food for her to eat, her mother-in-law saw that and frowned:

- I give you so much that if I stay at 1, I won't eat it all.

- How poor are the students?

- Oh. So do you pack me every week like that? Do you know my husband?

- Yes, mother. He even told me to get more for you!

- Oh my god. This way, why don't you always buy a house to live in? How much is done by the wife's siblings.

- How good is this? My mother said so .

But before Thuy finished, she turned away and left.

From then on, her mother-in-law Thuy noticed every bit of her spending in the house like a supervisor. What the daughter-in-law buys, uses something, she gives up everything. Eating and drinking something is too much for her to go back to the wild girl.

Not only that, Thuy's mother-in-law also told her neighbors that she was a wasteful daughter-in-law and broke down in the house and only knew how to return to the foreigner. It was true that she did not do anything until she thought of a similarity to the succession that made her understand.

At that time, there were only fish sauce bowls with boiled vegetables, sometimes with fish or some slices of meat. At first, her mother-in-law happily showed up:

- It's reasonable to buy food like that recently. No more redundant than the previous batch.

- Yes. She said she spent a lot of money, so she reduced it. It is not enough for a house with 2 children to eat so this is enough.

But for a few days Thuy's mother-in-law could not bear it, so she finally slammed her chopsticks into the table:

- Are you against it? Or can I see that my husband is not at home, so how can I abuse my husband?

- Hey mom. Yesterday I told you to cook this for savings.

- Saving is also a few meals, but the whole month is boiled, who can stand it.

- Why do you see whoever the mother also told the wild pepper and then sucked her husband's house? If you buy food, it will be for your family to eat. As for my children, my mother considered watching the meal for half a month when she was new. If I give you something and eat it, it will be worth it.

- Mom . I'm afraid of wasting.

- I know how to spend it reasonably. I eat for myself but don't eat for anyone.

After saying that, Thuy quietly went to the kitchen of the meat and fish meat. Because her mother-in-law did not say that day, she also prepared more food. And from that time on, she became much more comfortable and sympathetic to her daughter-in-law.

2 important principles for a good mother-in-law relationship

Communicate fairly

You and your mother-in-law are two mature women. What you are doing today is also a time when your mother-in-law went through. So, before each job crosses the boundary of the couple's personal story, please share and ask for your opinion. While discussing, dexterity and gentle inclusion into his views. Of course still on the basis of promoting mother-in-law. Remember that old people's psychology is very fond of being uplifted and sweet.

Set reasonable boundaries

Referring to her husband's help in resolving disagreements with her mother-in-law is a clever and effective way. However, in some cases, you need to know how to stand up for political protection instead of waiting for the rescue. You cannot fully control the behavior of your mother-in-law, but you can set a limit on the impact of that behavior on you. The goal is to protect yourself and your marriage.

For example, her mother-in-law is always uncomfortable with giving you a computer to play for 15-20 minutes every day. She cited how many bad stories, children spoiled by electronics. Not that you don't know it, but you can't prove her positive side in reducing stress, developing children's thinking. So don't argue what to do. Keep smiling and follow the will. After that, choose the right time to explain.

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