I'm too tired with a double-sided mother

After years of love, our love ended with a dream wedding. My husband is an educated person, his work is decent and he loves his wife. My husband and wife's life has nothing to complain about, only one thing is that I can't get along with my mother-in-law.

My mother-in-law is a very harsh and fastidious woman, and my father-in-law, who lived with her for many years, said so, and her neighbors all said that my mother-in-law was difficult and difficult. I knew her from the day I fell in love, I went to my husband's house to play, saw my mother-in-law's eyes glaring at me, but I thought that when I finished my wedding with my husband, I didn't live with my mother-in-law all my life, so I didn't notice She is fastidious or not. However, I still try in everything so that my mother-in-law relationship is not stressful.

Married couples have been married for a short time and have not gone to work, so their spending is still very tight, but every time on holidays, I have a gift for my mother-in-law carefully.

Every month in addition to paying for the living expenses of the couple, I also gave my mother-in-law 1 million to my own mother. Every time I turned her down, she told me, "You keep it and your mother's expenses are already paid for by her father and she doesn't buy much, so she doesn't need it," but she still holds it.

When I was pregnant in the month, because of the high cost of the team, I had to talk to my husband about the gifts, the money with her might be cut, and later, I would be curious later. My husband sounded reasonable and agreed. Careful, we also talked to her, at that time she pretended: 'I am not important to give you a cake, as long as you are happy and happy.'

I thought it would be finished, but once I went to the market, I heard that the meat-seller at the market had a headache. "My mother-in-law yesterday came here and said that from the day I had my daughter-in-law, my wife heard nothing from her. Mom, you are sorry for an old lady with some pocket money. "

I fell back, not knowing how to be right.

Then when I was born, I stayed home to take care of myself and my children. At times when only her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law stay at home, she rests, lies in her private room while eating snacks while watching TV or going to a neighbor's house. But around 6pm when her husband and son were about to leave, she quickly went home first. She tried to touch this a bit and the other thing was a bit hard work.

By the time my son and my husband came back every day, we would witness the diligent mother-in-law doing housework. But when there is no one, everything happens the same, that is, I alone carry all the housework.

But that night, when my husband and I were in a private room, my husband happily told me: "Most of my wife, I just told you that you should not do heavy things. Mother told you to be assured because at home you already have Mom, my mother-in-law, my daughter-in-law, what is it? " I'm so tired, I can't say it all to you. But I don't know what will happen if I stay like this.