Strange life: Her mother-in-law lowly hopes that her daughter will come home to celebrate Tet, but keep her daughter-in-law from going home

Delayed, in the end when I was 30, I still had to go home to my husband's car, leaving my mother alone. My father was seriously ill soon, I loved my mother very much but since I got married, I had too little time for her.

My husband is in Thai Binh, and my house is in Nam Dinh. My husband is the eldest son, the grandchildren of the whole family. The husband's house has 1 younger sister who is about to get married.

My wife and I live and work in Hanoi, each month we arrange a time to visit our parents once. Every month, after coming home, the couple will return to the house next month. I also feel somewhat warm when my husband knows things.

Talk about my parents-in-law. Both grandparents love their children. But they have a dislike to face with relatives and neighbors.

Every Tet anniversary my grandparents forced my wife and I to be present. Because in my husband's hometown, I still respect men and women very much, the visits, the holidays are highly appreciated. Sometimes the husband and wife are busy with work but do not dare to absent.

Last year, the anniversary of the death of my father was on the day of my father's death. Therefore, the couple asked for permission to leave to become anniversaries outside. The next day my mother-in-law told me: 'They kept asking me how to be the death anniversary star on the day of the holiday, but no children left. Their children are all present. '

She did not blame my husband and wife but kept talking like that, which made me feel bad. She is too high-profile of her family but forgets that she also has a mother who is living alone in her hometown. My house has brothers and sisters who still support me, and here I am alone.

Although from the day when the daughter-in-law came home, her mother-in-law almost reminded her daughter-in-law every day: 'The daughter-in-law - the daughter, all of you considered me!'. But just think of some things like that, but it is only a few, and if all is finished, the day will end, the daughter-in-law will roll over. Is it true that her mother-in-law considers daughter-in-law as a daughter?

Every time I tried to explain, she understood but my mother-in-law did not care. She always said, married to her husband's house, Tet anniversary tried to arrange at home to ask relatives not to hesitate. My husband knew I was unhappy, but was awkward to know what to do to help my wife. Many times we went back to the countryside early, then we went over to our mother-in-law first, enlisted her with a few gifts, ate a meal with her and then had to go back to the interior.

Last year, my husband-in-law married, so I had Tet with my husband's house. Waiting until the second day, I did not see my husband-in-law returning to the New Year, so my wife and I returned home. My mother-in-law is sad to look forward to playing with my daughter. When I came back, I found out that my brother-in-law could not return because my baby was born. Her mother-in-law did not want her out of the wind, so she did not return.

This year, it will be another month before Tet, but my mother-in-law called to remind us two: 'Come back to Tet soon. Not coming home late, neighbors think of what kind of parents their children and grandchildren visit. This is the 5th year of the Lunar New Year.

I was still sad and I didn't know how to respond, my husband laughed back and replied: 'Mom is my mother, I have not come to Tet yet I guess she said this sentence already. Many times I have no idea but this time I have to say.

Did you see the Lunar New Year in Hong (his sister-in-law), who didn't come back to celebrate New Year, how was my parents sad? What do neighbors say to them? My wife and children are filial to my mother for a whole year, what are the Tet holidays worth?

My grandmother was also very sick at home, so I had to look after my relatives for a long time. This year I ask my permission for my wife and children to return to celebrate Tet outside. Both boys and girls are children, parents expect their younger sister to visit, the mother and daughter-in-law alone are much more eager. '