The talk of the woman after divorce: The misfortune has been too much, now I have to live happily

It is not wrong to say that in every marriage there is a crying woman. It's just that, someone cried a lot, some people cried a little, some people had tears flowing out and some people swallowed tears.

On that day, I still dreamed of a happy marriage, a small, warm family with a laugh. But all were disillusioned right from the beginning. Remember the day to welcome the bride, the mother told that the woman was miserable, married far away, she had nothing to hold on to.

I hugged my mother and said: 'Don't worry, he loves me like that, we will definitely be happy'. It's not like I told my mother that I believe that I will be loved and cherished, even if I marry a thousand miles away, it doesn't matter.

But I was wrong. Pride and confidence have replaced with disillusionment. My husband's family is very strict, my mother-in-law is extremely fastidious. The first day I went to my husband's house, I was reminded by my mother-in-law about getting up late. Also by the previous day, partying guests, then cleaning up until midnight, I fell asleep.

Being a bride of a family, having to live according to the husband's order is a natural thing, but I feel very suffocated. My mother-in-law was bitter, or said words that hurt others. My father and I were afraid of what my mother was. There are no friends here, no relatives of my relatives only rely on their husbands to live.

Even though the husband's house is so difficult, if only my husband loves me, I still try. However, my husband was heartless, leaving early at night to leave me alone. Moreover, whenever I do something I don't like my mother-in-law getting stuck with my husband: 'I told you not to pick him up to be a bride, now you argue with your mother-in-law .'.

Then I became pregnant, and my mother-in-law was happy to be present. She had a change in the way she behaved with me but when I knew I was pregnant, she immediately turned to face. In my husband's hometown, the thought of men and women is still heavy. Any house without a son seems to lose face to the village. The tired envelope, lying down for a while, heard her husband slipping away. Having a baby, holding a baby in the room, her mother-in-law told her to mock.

My husband was initially ill but later ignored. When I returned home, I felt that the atmosphere was tense and I tried to find a way to relieve myself. My mother-in-law did not love her niece and lived in the same house, but she rarely carried and held her. Embracing my child with tears in my eyes.

Then my husband played with the flower girl I discovered. My mother-in-law should discourage me from saying, 'Come on, leave this child and pick up another child to give him a son. I have to support my grandmother in the house, so I serve all day . '. I was dumbfounded. The most heartbreaking thing was that my husband did not know how to apologize, but also joined in with his mother to blame all my mistakes on my head.

At the extreme, I divorced and hugged my 5-month-old child to my mother's home. My parents shed tears and hugged me and me. Now the nightmare has passed but I think I still shiver. Looking at my grandmother and grandchildren, my heart was filled with sympathy. There is no one else who loves me in this world.

Parents take care of my children to make money to support their children. The unfortunate days have passed, now I will live happily. Now I will live for you and for those who love me really. As for those who cause pain, I consider it a nightmare, forever not wanting to meet again.

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