The wise mother-in-law do not confess me to call you to my daughter-in-law

Mother-in-law - bride-in-law, stories that even sit for a whole day are not over. The mentality of many mother-in-law and bride-in-law thinks that even if I do everything I can't get along, just leave it alone. But the leading cause of her mother-in-law being unable to be close to her daughter-in-law is due to the way of addressing. Surely many sisters here go to work as a bride to hear their mother-in-law confess "me" and call "eyebrow" with his daughter-in-law.

It sounds normal, but I think why the mother-in-law does not address their mother to make the relationship closer. Instead of calling my daughter-in-law "eyebrow", if I try to change the call with "baby, daughter-in-law" . is it less strange but closer to me? The daughter-in-law is a child, so that the daughter-in-law knows how she loves her daughter-in-law, and not confesses her brother as if the owner confesses to the sine, her son is the daughter, the daughter-in-law is also the child. If you call your son's wife with you . that's the mother-in-law.

If now my mother-in-law confesses 'me', call my daughter-in-law with 'you'. So later when my mother-in-law and her daughter-in-law changed their calling method by calling me and calling my mother-in-law by 'old lady', would my mother-in-law feel that my daughter-in-law would despise me? So the way of addressing shows the level of love of the mother-in-law for her bride.

As in Lan's situation, it is the proof of her mother-in-law's voice that makes her and her feel like a loner. Lan has been married for 5 years, after marriage she lives with her husband's house and also has many bad stories and jokes, especially her mother-in-law's confession. Lan's mother-in-law is a spacious, easygoing, and very gentle person. When I first came out, she took Lan's hand.

- Can you be my daughter-in-law?

At that time Lan felt her feelings made her happy. But after getting married, Lan's mother-in-law again turned to "me" and called Lan by "you".

How Lan's mother-in-law confesses, such as' going to work today for you through the market to buy some minced pork for cooking vegetable soup 'or' have you put on clothes' or 'did you cook early for your husband? eat '. To be honest at first Lan felt a bit shocked, she felt like her mother-in-law isolated herself from her family, because she hoped her mother-in-law would address her mother with her. Lan's parents always call their father and son but never once called it. Lan told her husband, he brushed it off, telling his parents to get used to it, now how to change! But it is worth mentioning that for Lan, her mother-in-law said so, and with her husband, she still confessed her mother very emotionally.

Especially, Lan was sick, colleagues visited her and Lan's mother-in-law kept going.

- Ask your friends what to drink, what fruits to eat to buy.

When Lan's mother-in-law said that, the girls just stared at Lan and asked.

- Eo, your mother-in-law seems difficult, isn't it?

Lan said wryly.

- Not at all. My mother-in-law is very good, just her way of addressing is like that.

Lan knew that her mother-in-law was good to her, but Lan expressed her separation from her mother-in-law. As a result, Lan felt increasingly unable to feel close to her mother-in-law.

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Meanwhile in Hang is the opposite situation. Hang also married and lived with her husband's parents. But from the beginning, Hang's mother-in-law declared,

- There is no story in this house that my parents-in-law confessed to my brother-in-law. Even my husband and I cannot confess you - did I hear it? Addressing such people is different from outsiders. If you want to love, you have to call each other by sweet words.

Although it is said that the mother-in-law - the fake bride-in-law of the Hang Dynasty, the daughter-in-law keeps going to the grape. But the result is that Hang's relationship with her mother-in-law is very good. She also loves her daughter-in-law more than her daughter . Even herself, Hang feels that she loves and loves her mother-in-law more often when she calls her a negative son.

From these two stories can show us how vocative influences the relationship. Do not think anything is okay for my mother-in-law to call my daughter-in-law, just call my daughter-in-law with me - then when my daughter-in-law tells my mother-in-law to not love me, I blame the daughter-in-law first. Being a mother-in-law is an example for her daughter-in-law to learn. So my mother-in-law does not lose anything, just call for 2 hours 'daughter-in-law', in this life, my daughter-in-law loves her mother-in-law like her mother.