Decode obsessed sex in adolescence

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According to the psychologist, think about sex is a normal phenomenon in adolescence, come along with the fast physical development. Finding out about sex, think about it have the effect of helping the boys, the girls at this age there is the reasonable behavior in each fact situation. However, according to Dr. Nguyen Minh Duc, Deputy Director of the Center for psychological counseling for children (Hanoi), if the thought of sex became my obsession, both in learning time, it no longer is normal again.

Causes of phobias can be: physical changes came too suddenly, the children get ready to welcome "the event". Once a psychology and knows not to keep up with the growing too fast physical, young will be shocked. Meanwhile, the society more and more stimulate the curiosity, the children's search. Not only has the book obscene videotapes, "cool" new work that even the book of science knowledge, the cuddly "moderate" on film can also cause agitation for children who are too sensitive to this.

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Sexual desire appears in puberty is a natural thing. Song if the urge is not clear, it will stress an caused and increasingly big pressure for the psychology minor, maDecode obsessed sex in adolescenceng extremely miserable. The younger obsessed heavy on sex usually do not disperse the impulse it: can't someone for fear of being damaged, do not dare masturbate because think this is odious. The brothers besieged in the impasse: let yourself be your SIN profane but still can not think of sex, so that may not work.

According to Dr. Nguyen Minh Duc, desires about sex cannot be suppressed because it is natural, therefore need to "energy" he escape by other actions, when not yet able to have sexual relations. The best way to end, thoughts about sex don't become obsessed is seeDecode obsessed sex in adolescenceng "investment" of energy on a different activity, to escape the same impulse is out. Such "speaDecode obsessed sex in adolescenceng out" of his thoughts, if not with someone with a pen, Palm trees ...

"Painting, poetry, write diary is a very good solution to these feelings are sublimated, thanks to which psychology back in balance"-Mr. Germany said.

Active participation in social activities such as youth volunteering, advocacy for HIV/AIDS or simply join in the fun, picnic with friends ... was how clear energy, directed the attention to the positive things, avoid the obsession about sex. Minors can choose whatever activity suits you, as long as his receivers not to sink in books, video, the internet and the unimaginable. Life as static, the sex urge is not clear as easy to become obsessed.

Physical, masturbation is also considered a way to unfreeze. Masturbation is considered harmless, even beneficial if done with just the right frequency, meaning that does not affect the health, learning and living. Should not be considered the thought of sex or masturbation is damaged, resulting in a bad psychological influence.

However, according to Dr. German, with whom sex has become pathological obsession, govern the day-to-day operations, the search to psychological experts to be consulted and the therapist is essential. The therapy usually lasts many months, possibly with a frequency of 1-2 times per week. One of the treatments is to use the center of the drama, who have neurological disturbances play a role in the play. For example, with the case obsessively about sex, under the guidance of Psychology professionals, the child will participate in a situation close to the difficulty, there is the expressed feelings for you, there are other little touch ... The move presents and this experience is a good clear way the stress in children, help children slowly return to equilibrium.

To avoid the case of neurological disturbances such as the above, Dr. Germany advised the parents prepared about psychological knowledge as well as for your child when coming to the age of puberty. Should take the time to pay attention to the child's physical, geared to the active, alive with friends outside of school time.=