Outlet for the marriage not 'stiff'

According to the data scientist Seth Stephens-Davidowitz, the phrase lament or be top searches on Google is "no sex" marriage-many more verses lament "unhappy marriage" and folded eight times " lovemarriage".

The experts made the following 6 tips for women stuck in this type of marriage:

1. You are not the only people to suffer so

Many of the women in the group that needs high bedding in marriage but usually less when sisters open discussion of this topic with your friends. Moreover, the media today are put up photos of those relationships make women think that men always have high demand for sex. In contrast to this, many women are struggling with marriage that blanket pillows cold. You remember having the Forum can help you share this problem, psychologist counselRodman, Samantha.

2. Don't accuse yourself

The error is not in you, so please stop accusing me. Nothing you a count measurement model sexy women or not if he actively initiated sex, or not do it. Many times men are afraid to "love" just because the stress or are experiencing the condition of erectile dysfunction and they are afraid to tell you that. Man defines his bedding capacity is capable of expressing, and otherwise gain speed on the level of demand, they will retreat.

Please express your love to him, let him know that there was any pressure to reach the Summit. Let him know you still like to cuddle close, and if you still crave "a happy ending", you are free to satisfy myself. If he wanted to participate, he can detect themselves do more than imagine. Don't wait until he's active. Women's "diamond grip" in the life of sex itself is also good.

3. Understand that sexual desire at full time with

Our sexual needs are diminishing according to age, and the impact of the pressure factor in life-to do more work at the same time, children, families, homes, take care of yourself ... If months passed the couple you dont have sex and it makes you unhappy, it's time to talk.

Sometimes, all you need is just to chat with each other. If it is a physical problem (such husbands more than 40 years of you having difficulty maintaining the level of diamonds-might consider making to the doctor). If the problem is to reduce the attractiveness of physically, you need psychological counseling.

4. Take to the doctor

If the problem is due to physical problems, please help him plan the doctor appointment. Remove any health problems before we start discussing psychological problems are happening. "If you were to remove the risk of cancer, check his testosterone levels, and discussed about the tired, the pressure of the guy, then you can look deep into the relationship of two people", Tammy Nelson expert said.

5. Make sure that your partner is also willing to solve this problem

If you do not want to see the doctor (though go with you or alone), and your marriage is just the living home, it's time you have to think about what's next in the rest.

6. Set aside time for privacy

The good news is that most healthy couple, ready to solve problems together, finding out the "light at the end of the tunnel" quite easily. To start, let's complement the spices a bit romantic. Such toys, new postures, new locations and unexpected love,.=