The ' secret love ' safe during pregnancy

In addition to 30 years old, she pregnant new H N.T. first child, the couple she decides ... "go love" during pregnancy and after birth to ... 3 months. Because of the rare late so the couple she H. a fear when such relations may have something to with her. Just hug the nịu Chair, Ms. h. laugh share: When pregnancy and childbirth alone should be very tired, "abstinence" then fine. Think back to see her husband, but fortunately for me should he tolerate.

In contrast with the case on, Ms. T.M.T. back tend to increase libido after the first 3 months of pregnancy, but she still husband worry should be very careful and keep the distance with his wife. Ms. t. though wanted to close her husband, but because of the shame, do not dare to share with my husband so must "abstain" in warm memories.

According to Dr. Nguyen Hoai North-South Centre study BV Free in Germany then the fret on this you are very common in the couples preparing to have children. However according to the doctor for a normal pregnancy with no reason what health, abstinence sex during pregnancy is not necessary, because the sex will be good for health and pregnancy. Sex during pregnancy is also not dangerous to the fetus by the fetus be protected very well in the amniotic sac and the uterus of the mother. So far not yet had any evidence demonstrating when my parents relationship will cause the premature birth or miscarriage. The miscarriage or prematurity is dependent on the development of the fetus. In the first 3 months, usually related to miscarriage factors genetic disorders, chromosomal disagreement, dissent, blood; in mid September, you can do the mother's hormones; last 3 months can relate to the placenta, amniotic water ...

There are also some cases should limit sexual relations during pregnancy, that is with a history of prematurity, miscarriage; Some have abnormal placenta as low plaque, a striker, currently in phase have bleeding in the vagina, the uterus. Some who have cervical abnormality, can open, create conditions for antenatal infection ...

And if the couple still too worried about this problem you should see your doctor for examination and advice to know there should be no sex, relationships such as how to secure ... So will create a psychological comfort for both husband and wife and get the "love" achieved as desired.

Forced abstinence "love" in pregnancy do many women feel warm memories. (Artwork)

Love how to secure?

During pregnancy, due to the change in the body so the wife also has a very large change in sexual matters, so open to sharing a husband can understand what makes himself comfortable and what not. According to experts, the ties would be sufficient and proper posture required selection based on the stage of the pregnancy. During pregnancy, is divided into three stages.

Stage 1 is the first 3 months of pregnancy, especially during the first week of pregnancy, women often feel sexual needs decrease due to fear of negatively affect the fetus, or feel tired, especially for those difficult to conceive or ever the miscarriage along with the hormonal changes should the woman often feels indifferent to sex. So, the husband needs to share sensitive, and should not require when his wife did not want to.

Phase 2 is the next 3 months of pregnancy, when the condition of fatigue due to pregnancy has passed away, the woman tends to increase libido. Although at this stage the fetus begins to grow but not too loud, so the sex caused the couple to easily reach the satisfaction. However, the need to be more gentle and have proper posture in the relationship.

The last stage is very fast at large fetus makes the mother of fatigue, or back pain and leg pain. This is also the time the mother will get stuck and are not comfortable in sexual relations, even though the desire can not be reduced. So the husband should have appropriate measures to achieve pleasure without causing discomfort and wife also does not affect the fetus. This stage should avoid causing abdominal and thoracic posture of the mother of the pressure.

The husband needs to share sensitive, and should not require when his wife did not want to. (Artwork)

Some proper posture when sex during pregnancy can mention are: the "inverted spoon", face to face, the husband is under the ... Inverted spoon: two are located in parallel, the back pressure in the stomach of the husband wife. Face to face: his wife is leaning to one side, facing her husband and put a pillow behind your back to keep the body always inclined. This posture allows the spouse to keep the majority of body weight not over his belly. My husband is the bottom: with this posture, the wife's belly will not suffer the weight of the husband and wife was also able to control the depth of penetration.

Some points to note when "love" in the course of pregnancy

During the pregnancy, but not blanket Pillow talk abstinence but there are some special things to note, because if improper relations will occur. If you see the occurred the following expression during pregnancy, you need to stop the sex and go see right obstetrician and sex: there are signs of premature births, out of blood where the vagina, the cramps, the cervix is weak (the channel openings), manifesting symptoms of Gynecologic diseases .

During pregnancy, when sexual intercourse should not irritate the chest the wife, because can increase prolactin secretion cause uterine contractions, more easily cause miscarriage or premature. In the semen fluid prostaglandins uterine contractions, doing so in the last month of pregnancy, the husband should use condoms.

These cases should not have sex when pregnant is when the parents elected to have a history of miscarriage, bleeding of unknown causes, signs of pregnancy or more than the song, has sold striker vegetables is Diagnostic Center. People who have a history of miscarriage or cervical problems should avoid sexual activity in the early months of pregnancy. Or if the placenta is located too low, you should not have sex. And go to see a doctor to have the tips suitable for your case.=