13 things a young couple should and should not do in the new year

1. Kiss and hug more often

Promise to myself that in 2014, you will hug and kiss each other more often. Life can be boring and tedious, if you do not attempt to add spice to the marriage. Love is something that couples for are obvious and ignored. Kiss my husband before you go to work, caress her husband after a tiring day in the Office and hugged one another whenever you feel like. You will realize that soon you will do these things in a natural way and you will be happier than ever.

2. Schedule a dating evening

Busy with his career and family life often makes marriage takes away the romance. The couple often lose the warm salty fire when they are too tired to go out and have fun together. The decision to schedule two nights each month dating. You may feel tired, headache or after work, or some other reason may come, but don't let that spoil your date. Come play, watch a movie, eat out, or the drive way and return home with a smile on face.

3. Know negotiate

Quarrel, anecdotal stories or discomfort is a part of married life. Who said apology before doesn't matter as long as both of you stop problems early. Many couples often digging the past and lay out the accusations against each other. This only aggravated the problem. Let's make this new year's goal is not so high that I and you both need to warrant higher-level security argument did not continue for too long.

4. Planning for the future

Why not spend the first days of the new year to sit back and talk about your financial plan? Saving, investment, budget allocated etc are some of the things that in many cases one of the two you have to make decisions as necessary. Why not sit back and discuss this with each other? Not only does it eliminate the misunderstandings, but also makes both of you closer. It will also save you money to plan to do something together.

5. Praise more than criticize

Familiarity often feeling greasy, and this is especially true for the newlywed couple. You need to understand that both you and your husband/wife has some positive and negative side. Instead of prompting go bad on these points, recalling the year you take a compliment and appreciate each other more. Focus on constructive criticism or put out the request. This will make your partner feel positive, happy and encouraged to make a similar effort.

6. exercise together

After the wedding, it is easy to increase or reduce weight quickly. That's why in this new year, you need to draw out the fitness training goals together. This will not only help you spend the precious time together but also remove the Pasty soft muscles.

7. Listen to your mate

Sometimes, every person needs a patient ear to listen to the feelings. Could be the problem or problems with your friends. Though is what, you just need to shoulder to husband/wife is based on. In this new year, you be patient and pay more attention to your partner by being good listeners.

5 things to avoid in the couple relationship in the new year

1. Avoid silence and lukewarm

Not a few cases to punish each other, people keep silent and do chill together. The reality has proved this is a way of revenge, but brings little properties. Silence and the cold will create a wall of isolation between the two and this will prevent two ngươì solve problem together. So, to nurture emotional couple in this new year, need to avoid silence and crucified. It is best to describe exasperation if there is noise, a bit can also not good, but better still is to tolerate silence and lukewarm in warm memories last longer.

If one of the two who love silence and do chill then solve? Anyway should also not to the last. Please select at gently ask him (or her) about what's frustrating, to both solve, share. Usually silent is also the way to others to pay attention to yourself. So, you come close and quietly visit!

2. Avoid keeping the aversion that please forgive

Usually, when not able to manifest indignation caused by offensive, people keep forever the aversion. That in relation to the spouses, this is disastrous. Therefore, you should avoid falling into the situation.

Positive measures here is spare and forget! The couple should "quit doing nine ten", aversion about each other just makes life litter the heavy double background and could be the premise raises conflicts. So it is best to know forgiveness, said two things had forgotten that not get freed. This is the only measure to avoid this mistake. One that ball can make mistakes. So very needed forgiveness.

3. Avoid just want to claim the priority

There are couples that wait person other people do themselves a good deal, meaning that everyone wants to be the first priority, and then finally the contradict each other.

Such behaviour is really selfish because it didn't bring together what. Even if lasts it can make the relationship the couple become trivial.

Measures the best in this new year is to know "for the" first and don't think of anything. The psychologist insists: If you easily go without response how many are you also as easy to get much (of course this is in relation to the couple).

The problem is that "human nature is just like getting from someone you love. So why are you not doing good things for your wife (or husband)? ". To do so, you will get more and that is of interest to each other, the basis of happiness.

4. Avoid truth love

Married life doesn't need the "truth". Such couples often have embodied the uncomfortable truth chorus: the husband says to his wife: ' if really love him, I let him regularly attend the football match and don't make him lose interest "; Did the wife says to her husband: "what about you, if you love me, please stay home and help children more care for children".

According to the psychologist, the couples used this way if they are no longer expecting anything in the other positive measures. It's like a sport to push both on the defensive and they no longer are keen to do what good for my husband (or wife), because there's no one like it when being cornered into the world are reluctant to prove their love.

The most positive measure in this case is to choose how to tell the difference. For example, instead of saying "If you love me, you must ..." you should say: "I would love him to do it for you". So easy to feel and accept more without harming sentiment.

5. Avoid not living "bedding"

Many women often apply this to "punish" him. It is not so. Because it can push the husband to boredom, deductive and shunned and ... find a another disadvantage.

Better measure both is: share the frustrating and sympathetic. I.e. If something upset, you should speak with the weasels and should not happen to the story arose from the other stories. You can say to him: "I see not inspiration when it is still frustrating, we should first solve everything for all, after the talk there".

What you say is real, totally building standpoint and wish everything will be fine, including the "bedding". Do that, your spouse will get better.=