Before boarding the United, have straight arms that 'initial'

She's 5 years old, least I have graduated from a University, several years ago, we now work also called income stable spending is not too tight. While there, I also had quite a stable career, back home in Hanoi, so if two people marry each other, then it is basically also what not to lose anyone. However to me, happiness and money don't have too much in common, both have to strive very much as if want a warm family.  And the first thing is probably to find a way to talk frankly with her about the future.

Happiness should be the "tricks". (Photo illustration)

The tools for teaching then: "anybody want to change others but do not want to change myself," she's too. She wants me to spend private time for her, more time for friends and family. I'm also ok pm please. She's not smoking, not gathered comrades play game, there is no such meeting in private with the opposite sex, don't get drunk, don't like it, don't like that ... That looks like not only her that many women prefer to take control of her husband and his lover. More when I see too esoteric encyclopedia and like to jump up, she also expressed equally tough, so sometimes I have to go, because I was the man.

But to get to the level that my mother has also not happy about the future daughter-in-law, to me in between with know how awkward feeling, then see the correct family is where too much complexity. The sad mother and wife, but resist being the mother, the wife sad. However when the thought, I realized that the self must also be changed, can not be wife afternoon. My mother was right: "Teach your wife from wife not at yet, rather than wait until at helpless about it." The other day, her stubborn, has a somewhat silly, I immediately yelled at constantly, she extended the eye up, I do not resist so she slaps a. Maybe many people will think of me, but I'm not brute regretful about the slap. Because more than anyone, I was hurt more than her.

The next day when everything is eased, I have actively done good Messaging. Her Department were out demanding separation, I also agree. But tell her that I took my wife to jointly solve the problems in your life, not to turn her into a problem difficult to solve in my life. Several day later, she apologized to Messaging. That's it.

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