Confusing psychology of adultery men, couples are not necessarily tired of wife?

There are more than 95% of adultery men during the marriage, whether it is an affair or an affair. Men begin to have relationships outside the channel when the economy is stable, family life is stable but boring, husband and wife story is nothing new and unique.

Men who have bo are not simply because of their need for pillows. They may have adultery for the following reasons.

Men have the psychology of strangers, want to learn new things. Even if the wife is in bed and is a great lover on the bed, it is not possible to prevent husbands from 'hungry appetite', and delicious food will be bored.

At Rutgers University, they have studied that up to 56% of adultery men are to be happier in their married life. The husbands of them are satisfied with what they have about family life, wife and children but still want to go to bed with another woman while being warm with her wife.

Adulterous men are lonely and lack the feeling of love. Family life worries, care for children, domestic and foreign affairs makes wives forget a 'big child' that needs attention. Men who do not have a wife share the pressure, when talking, they only listen to nagging about the problem of hot money for a long time to get bored and go out to find pleasure outside.

Likes feeling conquered, adventurous and sneaky when adultery. When he has achieved many achievements in his work as well as his family, men want to adventure to conquer new challenges while expressing their attractiveness. They choose to adore young girls, adolescents who are sneaky but create a feeling of "fear but like", shady relationships are not bound to create a sense of excitement for them.

Men are always in high demand for physiology, they often commit adultery when the wife is unable to respond due to weak female physiology or being pregnant or when the couple is apart. Being 'starved' for a long time makes it easy for those who are psychologically unstable to go out to find a 'clearance' option.

In the survey entitled 'General Social Survey' in the United States in 2017, about 20% of men admitted they had adultery while women accounted for only 13%. Married husbands during pregnancy also have the ability to 'crave noodle' and this number is estimated at 10%.

On the other hand, the time when men resist being tempted by the 'outer satellites' is a new marriage. At this stage, the husband and wife have a constant affair, unlike when the wife is pregnant will often reject her husband's need.

Unlike people with emotional imbalance or emotional disturbances and then 'skip rice for pho', normal men have an affair because they are not yet mature, Weiss said. He added: 'Most men stand between two choices: being a trusted husband or a deceiver of his wife and children, then they realize how childish they are and learn from mistakes' .

Psychologist Weiss remembers a client who came to him for advice when he wanted to have an affair with a colleague. Mr. Weiss advised that he should treat the marriage as a contract. If you want to 'make love' to others, you must discuss it with your wife first to renegotiate the terms.

When he does, he will see the pain his wife suffers, then his emotions are overcome. Unexpectedly, he stopped the relationship outside that channel.

For an expert like Weiss, there is only maturity and careful consideration to help men escape adultery. He said: 'A mature man always keeps his partner in mind no matter where they are. They know what hurts women and they will not exceed the limit. '