Husband and wife arguing is a key factor for marriage happiness.

Husband and wife arguing in the past is a normal thing in married life. However, according to research by scientists, these conflicts sometimes become a key factor for marriage happiness.

Recently, scientists from India have researched married couples to determine whether controversy affects their relationship.

Accordingly, the results show that 44% of respondents said that controversy plays an important part in marriage happiness. They say that debating more than once a week will help make communication more open between the two.

In addition, another 14-year study also concluded that couples who argue often (but in a peaceful way) cannot separate.

It is known that this study was conducted for 79 couples across the Midwestern United States. According to FamilyShare, the common point between happy couples is to regularly take the time to debate popular topics in life, open talk and sincere suggestions.

Therefore, if you want to have a healthy relationship, you should not avoid debates. But that's not why you run home causing your "other half" immediately after reading this article.

What couples need to pay attention to

1. Do not argue in crowded places

No matter how angry each other is, the wife will not foolishly quarrel with her husband in crowded places. At that time, not only did you make your husband lose face, embarrassed with strangers, but he also hated you to the extreme. Once self-esteem is compromised, men will not be able to control their emotions, but speak difficult or obscene words to lower their legs with their wives to show authority.

At that time, conflicts could not be solved but also made the situation worse. So women try to restrain, wait until they get home and close the door to tell each other. If so, then you two will be calm enough to acknowledge your mistake, enough time to consider right and wrong.

2. Don't argue in front of your children

Children need to grow up in a warm, peaceful family. If accidentally turning children into witnesses for quarrels, witnessing their parents shouting at each other will cause injuries that will never heal in their hearts.

Even those lesions also cause a child to grow up in inferiority because he or she has an unhappy family.

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