Husbands come adultery, then what kind of family is also heartbroken?

Also at the time I heard her husband are external univesity, couples, beginning with he no longer has time for his family, his wife and child neglect, even half a years we did not related with each other. I know the rumors is true but still biting the teeth suffer just because think it good for the kids, my children need to eat to study properly, there are parents, not affected by the rumors "circulating" off the road.

But now, the children also have large, has also become seat every time I'm upset, I think the time has come to let your dad I know it really was dealing with the family and his wife. My husband was in a relationship with another person over 7 years now, deceived me and my family, not about with family eating a meal, don't remind, teach the children what. When caught her husband and lover in the cafe, he vows to sever this relationship, is the only player to cross the street, the family is number one. He said that, I do frequently back still and completely collapsed, families no longer trust. Because deceit, selfishness of her husband that my family is now destroyed, the property has more than 4 House and more land is also nothing, my daughter is worried of losing my future career, his son from a warm you now face poverty were also shocked. 

This is the true pain of family that I had hidden for many years. Now I am in pain to the desperate, anxious for the lives of two children, I do not know what to do now?