I was helpless when my son was 30 years old but insisted on not marrying, demanding to worship his lost girlfriend in the room

Here, how many mothers are worried about their children getting older but not getting married? I am 57 years old this year, my husband died early, I was alone in raising my son. Luckily thanks to heaven my son is good, has a stable job. The idea that everything will be good, the son will marry his wife to give me a grandchild to carry.

So, although this year is more than 30 years old, my son still has no intention of getting married. The reason is that he still remembers his ex-girlfriend. They fell in love with each other at the age of 19, promising after graduating from college, going to school for a few years to get married. I personally love and treat her as my future daughter-in-law.

But it was heartbreaking that she was gone two years ago in an accident. At that time I looked at my son, but it was heartbreaking, he lost his appetite for sleep, just hugged his girlfriend's photo and cried. I think the lost person is gone too, the living person must also continue, the passage of time is sure my son will settle down and find new happiness for himself.

I also pity for my son's girlfriend, so when my son asked me to worship her in the house, I still accepted. I think it would be better to prohibit boys from forgetting their girlfriends, making it easier to fall into a psychological crisis leading to crazy madness.

By the end of the first anniversary of that girl, I went to ask a matchmaker to find my wife for my son. As a mother I could not keep watching my children live in the past, always remembering a dead person forever. But how much effort I put into the river to the sea, to meet any girl my son refused, even declared:

- I will live alone in this life, my daughter only 1, now she is dead, I will still worship her if I live. Please don't match me up anymore, I'm tired.

Helplessly watching my son live like that, I went to see fortune telling, I was not superstitious but looking at my child's condition now, I could not help but worry. And then the fortuneteller said it was because my son worshiped the photos of his ex-girlfriend in the room, so the soul of that little girl remained my son, unable to escape, so I followed my son so that he could not marry anyone. .

Wanting to cut away the spirit of that girl must leave the altar in my son's room. But what I worry about is how can I advise my son to be here, every day he looks at the picture of his girlfriend, now that I have to leave, I will be afraid that my son will go crazy and make a noise. What should I do now?