Modern spouses and san family pillar role sharing

In the position of the pillar, the wife must become iron stone

There was a warm nest happily my husband, Bui Thi (32 years old) experienced the feeling became the family pillar should somewhat understand that women in that role will be very hard. Cloud said that although his wife still do good in that role but the location should still pillars for the Messiah you beard: "his opinion, simply no pillar was the main money but also bring the insecurities for the rest. To date, we can not deny the natural function of the woman that is take care of every meal, sleep for the members of the family. Himself has never wanted to deny the position of man but sometimes the wife earns more money, higher position than her husband but the Norway maples still resenting her husband to hold ".

San share responsibility in the family.

About san share the responsibilities in the home, rattan frankly expressed: "a family should have a clear hierarchy. The man should be the person to cope with waves of wind because they could not depend on his wife. Conversely, if the wife her husband changed the economic worries, the natural course of their functions will be wasting time, once could do good are both work then maybe my husband will become the heir? "

Talk about the experience of the self, 32 year old girl confided: "was there at the same time I have to cum always care of families and become the economic mainstay, but the main at that time, I found myself having to iron over, like forced herself up, and so is anti inevitably think about the location of her husband's House in Pale. Therefore, when that period has passed, as that position should always pillars for men. Though that time now, my wife would be sharing with my husband about everything but simply helping her husband more confidence, rather than completely replace the role of the husband ". Clouds also bluntly told myself don't enjoy anything when looking at a family in which the wife is rolling to make money, while the husband at home doing housework.

"At his home, while the role of the husband has not really been fully but at anytime, I always do not stop looking for the opportunity to return to this task for you. The two left and right arm, always have a stronger hand in the way of medical interpretation. But so does not mean that no other agreement arm does not matter. When done correctly, all functions must be solved ", cloud analysis.

Although women where still needed a strong man made pillars

Along with perspective, through the experience of ourselves, Heavenly Angel (28 years old) also said that the location of the family pillar should still for men, especially spiritually. "I think that men can handle things better for women in the family, people still say that ' men built the houses, built of warm nest ' woman is so. Second, men are often good at making money than women, and when did live together in a family, women often take care of more children, instead, the man holding the key. And though women are strong, then should still need a man made pillars, in any situation, "Qian said.

According to the general trend, the Angel also argued that the modern family was more or less a change of opinion columns in the House. However, even when the couple are viewed as pillars, the husband who always is ' solid ' columns: "Although women are good enough to go, then myself think they too could not in man. In contrast, women also should not be too dependent on men, especially financially because of modern life requires women also need many battlefield as men. When both husband and wife have jobs outside the society, the physical problems as well as the spirit of the family will be more stable ".

Sharing his own experience, the Angel said like many other young families, the husband is still the seat of both houses, from financial problems to the spirit. "Her husband is always a strong seat for mother. However, her husband was always very supportive of pursuing his own career, despite what the job is, as long as my wife feel like myself. His family always shared everything, "her mother a happy expression.

Husband and wife should not to own one get the burden

General opinion with no Clouds and Heavenly, Bui Ngoc (28 years old) have a relatively distinct opinions about the family pillar. Because after marriage, i.e. both are responsible san shared with each other everything. "The wife Has family responsibilities should be divided by two, possibly more likely people will worry more, others will worry less but I still insist is all the work should be shared and discussed. I think that men or women are alike, no one will wish to burden the heavy responsibility on his shoulders during a long time, feeling like becoming lonely homes ", Collecting the jewel Center.

28 years old girl for social change, that the former concept also no longer completely correct, which include thinking about the family pillar. "At that time, women often are associated with the work kitchen nực, child care, rounded genius of the wife, the mother. But today, women have confirmed their role, not least good men in all the fields. So, I think the family pillar position, also no longer completely the property of men. If desired, the sisters can also manage good family as anybody ".

However, Currency N also said that actually, a smooth, warm family harmony does not depend on the clear delineation of who is the pillar. Instead, each of the members were voluntary contributed their responsibility to rise to the final destination: hearth full enough, happy. "I don't care what people do is, people would much less responsibility, responsibility. Rather it is to everything naturally possible. But I always think that, good women but don't need to always have to prove that. Not unjustly that in the House, although the husband, by age or age-poorly but still known as wife and wife. Part of that is the respect, the rest is because they expect to be wrapped, protect the pillars of that spirit, "Ngoc analysis.=