Smart women do not bury themselves in pain, nor try to hold on to a man who has an affair

You should remember that, if your man was gone because of another woman, you should not hold on to him. Because when men don't love it is the most cruel, and you don't make them despise you. Therefore, do not bury yourself in suffering because they add anything you will deserve to be a much better person than they are.

Because when men commit adultery, it also means that their hearts and minds have chosen that. There will be no man who loses reason for adultery.

And you know that, there will be no man does not know who his heart more when having an affair. They are only puzzled about losing, greed for having a wife and lover or giving up either. But men never know what they want when they have an affair.

Most women often think that men like themselves, will waver, will use, and will still have meaning. But then women believe that men are puzzled, men are seduced, men are just lost.

If you do everything you can to keep a man in any way, man will come back, will change. And so women cling with affection, with tears, in all manner of dignity, the purpose just to believe that they can keep an adulterous man.

But you should remember, actually when a man has an affair, no woman can hold it. For men, when they are, their hearts are. And when they want to go, their hearts will surely go - both men's hearts and minds are clear what they want, men will leave in any way, even the most cruel.

In fact, no one can stop a man when they know what they want to do, even if they do something wrong with sin, hurt their families and will even regret it later. It is a man, forever still, with silver as lime when he has changed his heart .

Women should never use their love and hurt to hold on to a person who has a heart to leave, the thought of letting go. Do not confront your heart with the cruelty of someone who has changed your heart.

After all, it is only a choice, even if it is a mistreatment of men. That's what they want, even if they sin against others. And you need to remember for what men have chosen, what they want, women should only accept, rather than disregard for change.

Therefore, for a person who has betrayed her, women should not try to hold back. Because in the end, they will not stay, or will stay in a way that hurts you the most.

You should know, they can change, be cruel, more inadvertent, even worse, it doesn't mean that you have to change with them, you have to be blindly jealous, you have to become ugly ugly, or weak mandate.

So, why should you make yourself worse by someone who no longer loves you? You are hurt, you don't deserve to be like that.