Soaked with 10 couples in love but not sex

Although living together nearly a decade, the couple seldom do "it".

She is 49 years old and her husband Ian, Paula, age 47 married in 2005 after 13 months they met. Although living together nearly a decade, the couple seldom do "it". "In the first six years of his marriage, he's not even sleeping next to me on the bed, he slept on the sofa," she tells Paula.

Despite the absence of the physical intimacy but Paula loves her husband. "People look at our relationship and jealousy," Paula said. "Ian is particularly strong with me. Although we do not do "it" but I will never leave you. He's resourceful, generous, and we are very happy. "

Ian is a victim of sexual abuse when he was a boy.

"He goes shopping with me, select clothes and wait for hours while I try on the clothes. He made me feel protected and valued. He increased my confidence. I think "it", we have a perfect marriage ".

Be know, Ian is a victim of sexual abuse when he was a boy so afraid of intimacy to the flesh. In age from 6 to 14 years, Ian regularly endure sexual assault of 4 teachers at his boarding school.

Mental trauma has affected throughout the life of Ian. That is why the sex became aggravated with him. "I am very distressed because can not intimate with his wife. I've always equated the physical intimacy with sex abuse situation, and I can't do it with Paula ", Ian shared.

Printed with the couple "have love but no sex".

Paula and Ian met in 2004 at a hostel for homeless people in Edinburgh. "There is something alluring about the him. I know you're homeless and addicted to drugs, he had a tumultuous life but I do not know about the abuse. However I know you've done a lot of work to improve ourselves, "Paula said. They began dating.

On their first night together, Paula discovered Ian didn't want her touching him and she felt shocked because this action. "I know Ian love me, but I think he doesn't want me. I think maybe my weight was a problem. I feel sorry for myself ".

Then Ian confessed with Paula about her sexual fear. Paula was the first to Ian share about this secret. "I think I understand and think, well, we can pass along this story," Paula said.

In 2008, with the support of Paula, Ian has officially complain to the police about the man who has ruined his life. In November 2012, one of the people who abuse the Ian, former teacher John Addrison pleaded guilty and was sentenced to 5 years in prison.

Late justice is also not clearing Ian from sexual aversion. Ian had to see a doctor and a psychologist to the therapist.

"He's got a great determination. He ruled over heroin, stop drinking. I noticed lately he's starting to become more affectionate, sometimes I get a kiss, "Paula happy ever since.=