Thinking that single mother will be miserable, whoever confuses her husband is still suffering more than a thousand times

Many times I asked my mother if she was a single mother, did she feel miserable? When my neighbors and friends go everywhere, my husband and wife work and do things together . my mother even when she has enough money to build a house, she still struggles to calculate the calculation every day. up the design and then manually edit each table and chair, bed cabinet. How gentle is it if there is a man's hand?

When I was a child, I used to think that if I was an adult, I would have to endure to live together until the end of my life, not only for me but also for myself; more or less whether her husband is good or bad but her husband is still better, right?

Now, when there are only two children and mothers, both mothers and fathers, the responsibility of greater pressure is greater, not to mention being ridiculed and sarcastic by the people. At that time, my mother must have had difficulties and difficulties.

But my mother, who was a strong woman before, had never seen her cry in front of her face or was weak, she said it was a bit hard to raise a child by herself but at least she was freed from a husband. badly. Any difficulty will pass, the bigger the storm, the bigger the sun will be. Only human nature will never change, so why do you have to try to accept burying your springtime in such a bad person.

I looked around the neighborhood, not many families, 5 days and 1 small match, 7 days and 1 big match, the wife had to suffer from her husband's assault, there was a midwife in the middle of the night running to my house. Stick knife to chase. Many times accidentally running to play I heard them quarrel, cursing at each other in front of their children; That moment even though I was not their biological child, I was also obsessed with more or less what the children were in the game.

I have seen her friends bring their children to jealousy, both mother and daughter rushed into the inn to catch time, my friend even asked me to come along to watch but then he never smiled forever. like before. Is the horrible memory of seeing your father bewitching with another woman in bed that will forever be a stain that he can't forget.

Their story does not happen one day or two, but the ladies and girls only make a fuss for a while and then try to hold back for the last few days when the waves are calm for a few days. Old familiar horse. They kept tormenting each other until their bodies were devastated, and their spirits were so hurt that they were still weak and their children lived forever in suffering.

Is it possible for my mother to see these things and stop them from the beginning to save her suffering? Instead of suffering from time to time, why not find a way to free yourself, outsiders cannot know the wounds of insiders who know how to heal.

People thought that single mothers would suffer, then feared the absence of their husbands, but they did not know that single mothers like my mother were more disadvantaged than other families who had married couples everywhere. But my mother did not have to torment, torture by force whip and harsh insults.

If you do not try to fight, you can never free yourself, women who have been subjected to torture from their brave husbands, single mothers and should have found themselves should have given up. This bad husband sooner.