Wise women don't compare to 3 things and don't forget 2 things

3 things not

Money / Husband

Money is important but money is not a measure of life. Money can buy many things, but the most important thing in this world can't buy. That is your value in the eyes of others.

Women make precious money, making more money is more talented but knowing how to preserve morality and accretion is even more valuable.

Women with rich husbands can be more happy than many, but don't just know your husband to be proud and proud. Women are more than not only in their husbands, but also in themselves with enough value and talent to keep a husband with many admirers.

Children

Do not bring your children to compare, because children born without duty become pride for parents to compare with each other. If your child is good, parents should be happy and proud. But most importantly, are you happy or not?

You are successful, good at you, but what are you happy about? But a happy child, his life will still be full and peaceful.

And what I want, I choose is what parents should look for, rather than just wanting me to achieve what my parents want.

Marriage

Everyone's life is different, love or marriage is different. A happy marriage in the eyes of the world is not necessarily a truly peaceful marriage. Or an overly silent marriage in the eyes of others may be truly happy.

No marriage is the same, no mate is the same. Therefore, do not look at other spouses as a measure for your partner. Also don't look at other people's happiness to refute the happiness you have.

3 things not explained

No explanation is needed for my life

The wise woman must know 3 things: Knowing love, choosing a way of life, knowing independence and learning . does not need to say anything about the bad things others say.

There is no need for an explanation when you have enough self-recognition and righteous thoughts for your own good life. You have never done anything contrary to conscience, or brought bad things to anyone, what needs to be explained.

Do not owe anyone explanation about appearance, beauty

Beauty is a wonderful thing that parents and creators give you. So be proud of yourself. Whether you are slim or full, tall or low, beautiful or just looking, you don't need to pay attention to other people's opinions or glances.

Although it will be words that make you unhappy, or the glances can make you cry. But remember, their evaluation is not a sticker that defines who you are. Whether your appearance, physique, beauty is valuable or not, what your value is worth is decided by you.

Do not owe anyone an apology if you are not wrong

You must have a belief and respect in yourself. If you're not wrong, respect yourself, you don't need to apologize. You do not regret what you do, no need to ask forgiveness if you are right. Apology is not just about showing respect to the opponent, but also being yourself. If you don't respect yourself, then the opponent doesn't appreciate you.