Women are rich or hungry, happy or unhappy, losing to each other all at these 4 points

Financial independence

Women are not better than each other in their husbands but in their pockets. Even if you get a big, pampered husband, you still have to have a job, be able to make money yourself. Do not because of the saying 'stay at home to feed' but give up your career, lose your life

It doesn't matter how much money you make, the most important thing is that you can be financially independent, economic self-reliant and not live on anyone.

This is also a prerequisite to help you receive respect and respect from your husband's family.

Confident, not too perfectionist

Marriage causes women to lose a lot of freedom, after having a baby you will have less freedom. So, women want to be happy not to be self-deprecating about their stubborn bodies after birth, do not worry about being fat.

Instead, try to lose weight, get in shape, which means getting back your confidence.

Also, going to work, housework, taking care of your children will consume you a lot of time. Instead of competing on me because I think my husband will not be satisfied with it, please be less perfectionist, for my husband to help me rest and enjoy my life.

Do what you like, live your life

You like to travel, well, make money and make a trip. Buy clothes that suit you, don't need to rely on others' approval, just like you, you are satisfied.

Everything - it is best not to think too much, just think simple for a peaceful life. When you are healthy, you are still beautiful, your health will allow you to do what you want to do, carry out your crazy ideas, so that you don't have to regret it later.

Find the right mate / boyfriend

The shoes fit my feet or not only I know, the outsiders only see the flashy exterior of the shoes. Find yourself a 'quality' boyfriend.

He may not be a lot of money, but he must be the one who gives you a sense of security. Above all, still your feelings, don't let the outer glow deceive yourself.