Women should not be wise for 1 year, especially in 3 times of this decision

3 important times women need to remember

Upon receiving the marriage proposal

It can be said that this is the most important moment in women's life. If you choose the right person, you will be happy. If you're wrong, you probably know what the consequences will be. So be smart to realize if it's the man you're looking for.

Is he reliable and safe? Do not because of the romantic candlelight, a sweet song and a sparkling diamond ring but quickly nodded. Because there are foolish decisions that take only a few short seconds, then regret it for the rest of your life.

Receive any valuable gift from men

Nothing in this world is free. Whoever gets something, you will definitely have to return it somehow. So are men's gifts. So consider carefully before accepting gifts from others.

Upon receiving an offer to 'stay at home with my brother'

Perhaps women will hear this saying from the man he loves at some point. Because men often don't like their wives going out to make hard money. Then, calmly consider, analyze the lost aspect of this. If you do not earn money later, your family is difficult, what your husband's attitude will be. And remember that something will change.

Divorced women do not be fooled by one of these three mistakes

See husband as an enemy

Of course, the woman who takes the husband does not have the right to resent him, to blame him. However, once you decide to divorce, have freed each other, you should not use hate, hate to treat your ex-husband, do not see him as an enemy.

Bad father and son

Men who are adulterous are men wrong, gambling alcohol and beating their wives is wrong. However, if you can't say good things about your ex-husband, don't foolishly say him in front of your child. Do not let your child suffer the pain of a broken family and have to bear more of his father's hatred and hatred.

As a mother, you should use your generosity to educate your child, so that you understand that even if your parents are not living together, you still have enough of a family's love.

Entering new relationships too quickly

Contrary to the above error, after divorce, many people choose to rush into a new love in the hope that it can help them heal the heart that is bleeding.

This is natural. But right after divorce is often not the ideal time for a person who is hurting by a new love affair. What you need now is the time and genuine concern of relatives and friends.