Women who do not make money are still living with a bad husband who determines a miserable life

Sometimes it was so hard and embarrassing, I wanted to have a strong shoulder to rely on. As a woman who does not want to take a strong look, it is good to see good people meeting a good man, his whole life does not need to be strong. worry to see your heart. But knowing how it is, each person, each of them is not as lucky as one must bear.

I also loved deeply that man and thought they would be half their lives forever. But after being married for half a year, he suddenly got married and after 2 times of betrayal, I decided to stop completely. Even declared bluntly the ex-husband never had a back door.

People say I'm stupid why such a wealthy husband won't endure a bit, the promiscuous nature of men is a common affair. I asked them again: "I myself can make money by myself, what is the crime of having to take care of someone, who can stay with my husband to have a better and more fulfilling life, to go on expensive trips and wear clothes? But to fight back, I have to share my husband with many other women so I don't need to "

Being a single mother is extremely hard, but I'm still happy because at least I myself earn money, and worry about my children having a stable life. Every night, holding my baby in my lap and sleeping really well, just think of what tomorrow to eat, what to wear, and to see what kind of story the old friends in the cafe have. No need to worry about what husband my husband is going with, howling at each other and jealousy doing something to be tired.

Many times, I really feel sorry for other women who are extremely married, whose family is not good enough for me, and I have no courage to let go because of dependence.

Many of my friends eat half a month and call to cry:

- I admire you so much, you bravely leave your husband now and you live freely, and I determine my life to endure with my husband.

- My husband is a couple again, now I have a lot of emotions that can no longer cry but it still hurts, knowing what to do when he keeps promising and then recidivism .

- My husband hit me again, drinking alcohol lost to him, he dragged me to fight, I just wish there was a pile of money to carry suitcases out of the house .

I listened to each of their words but did not know how to advise them; tell them to forcefully leave their husbands like me? While they are dependent on each day, their ability to make money is not available, if they leave, they may not have custody of their children.

Tell them to try to make money is probably the best way, because having money can buy money first; sentiment has run out and need to hold on; try to live with a bad husband for what to do when the trauma overlaps. Suffering forever, being exhausted forever, please be alert again.

In short, life without a husband besides sometimes is really tired, but at least still feels lucky because he also gives the opportunity to make money. Very hard to bear; rather than being resigned to being miserable by a bad husband while I am not economically capable.