3 brothers reunion after 60 years of separation because of being neglected mother

No one can know the mother that the child was thinking when she knocked on the door of the House of strangers, asking them to adopt a three-month-old daughter. Msome of the summer of 1946 at a pottery village in Bucknall, Rosemary, age 28, have perseverance knocking home Tuesday to get the consent of raising the child.

Rita Holford, who encounter more emotional upheaval during 67 years, share: "I was that baby. Until today, I can't believe I have to go like that ".

Even, Rita is only one of the three unwanted child of Rosemary. Within 7 years, 3 kids in turn abandoned, with the same way, the mothers went knocking on the door of the House of strangers until the recipient of parenting.

The three brothers were mother split from small reunion after 60 years.

Rita has uncovered many clues showed that actually, her mother also had two daughters, but she doesn't understand why her mother left to go three out of five children as such.

Rita's mother is a female waitress grew up in Northumberland, was married at least twice. Her maiden name is first married name and Redmayne is Tweddell.

"When I found out the story I was very angry. Then, knowing his brother and his brother also abandoned as such, I feel angry because of the years had passed that we did not know about each other. That's not fair. ", Rita shares.

Fortunately, Rita is always available for adoptive parents love the warm trade. She said: "my mother, Lily, could not the girl out, but she's great. She has dedicated her life to raising me growing up. ".

Photo taken Rita when 18 months old in 1948.

Rita's foster mother is Lily Corden, a factory worker, was married to the bus driver, Harold. They had a son, 15 years old when received Rita as a trainee in the family,

Foster parents gave Rita a happy life, until Rita 11 years, father Harold died of vascular congestion syndrome. It is also discovered her at Rita is the only adopted child: "I saw my mom flipping through an insurance papers and promptly saw the words ' certified ' adopted son.".

"I tried to read but my mom had to take off the paper. And I again sneaked into the room mother, to find the paper that when parents go to work. That is my adoption certificate. I was really very shocked. Even though I know the papers that tell the truth, but I cannot believe that a nursing mother can raise, teach me so great. "

Rita gặng has repeatedly asked my mom about it but her mother cried when asked, and why not say so. Don't want to do the mother hurt, Rita made a discreet action plan. Nearby la asking her neighbors but not know more information.

Almost 50 years passed, Rita had 2 life with her husband, three children. Her feeling she can still find his brothers, and urge ourselves to take action.

So she started up the network to learn about ancestral lineage, by using the name that she had seen on the certificate.

The first detection of Rita's mother Rosemary had died 15 years ago. She admits there is no feeling whatsoever when his birth mother know has died. Rita says: "I just want to find her address and visit the House where she used to live, because it's right next to the village, the village of Blurton."

She was looking to the House of his mother Rosemary, where her sister was still alive, but no one in the House. "I wrote a letter, explaining who I was and stressed do not want to cause difficulties for you, I'm just longing to meet her and learn everything possible about our mother.".

"After two weeks of no reply, I wrote again. A few days later, I received a message from a phonenumber. I'm thrilled to call back, excited to introduce myself, but all she said was: ' I'm sorry, but I don't want to talk about it. My mother is just a normal woman. ' "

Rita disappointed again denied again, but she was still feeling can learn more.

From one source to another, she discovered Rosemary was married a second time and had a daughter named Carol, her less than 2 years. She was in contact with Carol. Two sisters have very similar traits, and Carol acknowledges "more like her mother Rita, from the hand to the face".

After that, Rita found the death certificate of Rosemary in 2009, including names, married and maiden names, Tweddell Redmayne.

Years later, she found the profile of Robert Tweddell 1 year before her birth.

Michael Moss, born as Robert, photo taken at age 3.

"His name is very often made me his urge to learn more. His birth certificate has the same name mother's maiden mom: Rosemary Purvis. "

"And it seems unbelievable, a few weeks later I found the boys-born Thomas Tweddell, born after April 17, and I just before Carol 13. It was a big surprise. My mother gave birth to three more us within two years. "

The support of her husband, Rita tried to find him and his brother though have to spend hundreds of pounds to confirm the birth certificate, death certificate, marriage and even hire people to search. Until October 2010, both brother and her brother are said to want to meet her.

The first was Robert, who was renamed Michael. The two brothers were unable to quell emotions when meet up again.

"Then we found John, born as Thomas. John was not as lucky as me and Michael. The first family pets he almost starved boys I. Then, a family had to take me when I'm over 3 years and was renamed the John. "

Photo taken by John salmon-age 5.

"Strangely, I live very close to each other and John throughout childhood. We definitely have to join the Club, and go to the store. "

In November 2010, the three siblings were removed from a young sat together for the first time at the home of Michael.

They had Christmas dinner early to welcome the new family. Since then, they often hosted eating together, both Carol also to contribute to the fun.

Rita adds: "it's surprising, Carol and I discovered our daughter had worked at the same Faculty in the same hospital, and once for each ride without even know to this sister relationship".

Although the each person has abandoned a place, but the blood sibling bond finally still found each other. Now, they hope the elder sister will bring to the final puzzle piece to pair on the happy painting the same 4 people.

"She's old enough to remember Michael was born when she was six. And certainly large enough to remember details such as John and I are born only in round7, when she was 11 years old. ", Rita hopes her sister will change opinions and accept the children.

She said: "I think, never too late to find the family, even when I was 60 years old. We are grateful for the nice time together since we found each other ".=

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