ROI rocketed today: no more pain

The type of education "trade roi for rocketing" idea belongs to the past, but it still exists in many forms, as recently the story of domestic violence children became the focus of the network message page. Education in the style of "Wolf father mother Tiger" then?

Side blow

A grade 10 student in Agricultural Dăk fled home, quit playing games then being caught, father a fine cow a long way from the store net home. Also on the ramp, Tan Binh District, HO CHI MINH CITY. UPTO a sunny afternoon, a 12-year old boys were adults in the House punished by arrest brought the plate "I'm stealing" by the plan to steal the bike in the store and everything.

After reading the story on the other, he hurt you, I reiterate his childhood, also under the harsh tutelage as those of the other boy. Doing wrong a high score, he does not dare to go home for fear of his father catch formula to light to study the inequality is the new crush. School once you go home late, he gets his father upside ceiling exactly one hour, also hold the rice. Other times, he is a fine father kneeling on clouds of paddy field plowed at noon Central because the crime does not belong in the article ... "But because of the harsh that I achieved as today."

"My father was strictly true to my brother"-you am I, now the Director of a construction company, concluded. And he has followed the strict from the father to teach his son 15 years. No kneeling on the paddy field plowed, don't hang on the ceiling, not roi, but "roi deterioration" of him for his pain. Lazy boy, eat a few minutes steals chocolate bars keep sneaking in the fridge, so is the rest of the day, poor boy his punishment for most of the five boxes of chocolates to choke! I don't like to eat bitter, but also told dad all day to cook bitter feed until the familiar new mouth. Boy birthday parents please you, late have ten minutes, raising his mother left the door made to sleep outside the corridors all night ... I said it was the ruthless, he taught you instant answers: "Now also socially more tempted to new it solid," Yen.

Many parents are isolated concept really harsh young may (artwork)

In a center of education and therapy for children in District 7, a father's age of 50 take a son 18 years thanks to specialist treatment. The boy did not meet scholarship should go overseas releases, torn clothes, sitting motionless in a corner, laughing at cry all day. A few hours after the intended spirit mind boy, new psychology expert from spend chatting with children: "why I love to pass the University?" The answers lie in the beginning: "to escape from the family, wanted to live the truth freely".

Through the word of the mind knows, my childhood years only these ten points and compliance time posed family. Just a band that falls below nine points, how do you get the tears of the mother as well as father's angry eyes. Childhood days as a mobile worker, can not response, the best way that I think is really good, try Learning University, scholarships abroad to escape the yoke of the family. The more the desire, the more psychological stress, aspired was no scholarship makes you fall.

DR. Tran Thi Thu Mai, Vice Dean of the Psychology-Educational, pedagogical University of HO CHI MINH CITY. HCM, identification of special education: the singularity on the only fallacies for failure in teaching children. Under the authority of the parents, the child can react more style: run away from home, stay in your personal life, drastic response, with autism, behave with violence around. Silently endure is also a type of protest, but when grown children that will impose roi rocketed for generations.

Trade for sweet for Bui

In a conversation with minors was held in HO CHI MINH CITY youth culture House. HCM recently, when asked in the family who is close with me, little girl N. K, 15 years old, let go of the answer: "in the House I hate the most is her mother because her mother was always rude, drums, gust. The semester exam score 10 math, on the breeze with mom, mom just let go "come on then complacent.". The trouble is no fun in class, home to share with parents, listen to complete my mother shouted "great now that the new presentation set for fun". My friends had to play today, I missed the hand dropped the hot mother fucking Cup, the "slut". When my mother bothered what you must avoid, if there how I said "get the Earth tight support". I don't like coming home, because of how well met my mom, Dad or travel far, you don't talk with anybody. "

The child is the victim of the jute grit often react by absorbing the rude, and apply them with your friends, with small children in the House. A few others intentionally created the gap with adults, by our parents in the eye is the most frightening person. And children will find a place to stand in a different object, or if no one else believes, will go in the direction that we see it is fun but usually are outside the social pitfalls as bad friends, drugs ... So, my parents use the sweetest words for your child, not the words makes tim non bloodletting.=

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