The age to get married, have children, do you?

This article is not intended to refer to standard German army of lang select women because of which this is a problem the table forever nor bored and also may not have the correct answer. Giving standards discussed here are the standards of society, about the economy, about how life experience is enough to give a woman can go to the important decision of his life is to get married.

More than a dozen years ago, from the countryside and town, the marriage age is pretty soon, in the countryside about 18-20 that has not the son Bong closing also was "unsuccessful". But, increasingly, along with the speed my life dizzy, women as well as men are tend to worry about the career and trying to marry. In particular, the role of women as was asserted by the different social roles, the women seem to get married as of late. Listen to the women in the generation of different ages confided their thoughts about getting married to clearly more than that.  

She Completed A Ocean (age 40-the collective agriculture-Phuong Mai-Dong Da District-HANOI) share: "I took my husband from 18 years old, the day in the countryside, it is the age need families. Of course we took each other based on the Platform of love but after get married, have children, I realized I was too young age of motherhood. My life hasn't got very much so I tripped the va embarrassing, awkward. Said as I know nothing about child care experience, all is thanks to those who went before. Get married early result was also unlucky thing ". Ms. Phan Thi Bach charm (32 years-the work in the United States): I am getting married in about 29 years. Fate brought push and is also mesmerized by the work should I get married quite late. Get married and have children soon after but I still find myself somewhat belatedly in the family story because now when plan b. more baby, also somewhat hard years. Every woman when marriage will certainly have to think about childbirth because it is natural and desirable that their ensuing ". Are you Bich Phuong (age 22-journalism Alumni-the University of Social Sciences Humanities &): I want to marry from age 26 to pour over. The main reason is because I want to be a mother to grow up and mature. A lot of people around also warned me about marrying late, late child birth then there may be no good results. However, I believe that babies have struggled of late or not is by the knowledge of his birth. Most of the women you well not rush stories married Lam as derived from the development of society, many things were different as different needs (they no longer need a husband just to feel the pillar in the family), the way of life is also different (maybe even women not married) the woman's role, increasingly higher and they also need to strive for a career as men ". That age would get married? She Completed A Positive: "I currently have 2 daughters. With normal economic conditions, stable as my family then I will advice my daughter about 24-25 years of marriage to ensure the 2 elements: just enough maturity, have stable jobs, just make sure what child birth, child care not too late ". Ms. Phan Thi Bach Charm: "my experience is married and thus always to childbirth and built his nest. The average baby born 2 couples, each baby from 3-5 years, not to mention other conditions such as the nature of work does not give birth soon, and economic conditions of the two spouses. Marriage is the simple, but take care, built for families that how the new is what should count. " Psychology expert vo Thi Minh Chinh (pedagogical Research Institute-University of Hanoi): "today, life has grown, although women have married and have children later also had the support of the measures very advanced medical science, while there are many sources of information from the heart services, or even look up information on the net. Therefore, could not impose an age to suggest women should marry at that age when that today, the women who have many choices about work, social position and the opportunity to build more family. The age suitable for marriage is subject in every woman with the nature of work, living conditions. For example, with a rural girl just learning off level 3 and do work at home, she married soon (just do not violate the rules of marriage before the age of 18 of the law), as well as coordinating storage ". Links

Please borrow the words of the expert psychiatrist has shared with phunutoday instead of the ending: "having been a family is difficult, but the thought is there a way to care for my family, for my husband, for the children, especially the children adopted into an adult and have the good sense is more important". Maybe age is just a very small part in the decision. If at any age, you have a steady job, a person you trust and a zest ready rolling, formal night tinkering to learn to mix the milk, taking older then that is the time you are ready to step into the world of marriage.=