Your child learned something from the dispute?

Behind the controversy of children always lurking jealousy, emotional struggles of his parents ... (Photo: internet)

The competition will make the moth

The kids home for arguing non-stop noise? Please rest assured, this is perfectly normal. Sometimes they also need to argue. However, what also must be limits.

All the mothers in the world to their children hurt each other as limbs but they must acknowledge that the controversy between them is unavoidable. Why is that? Because between them there's always competition.

Right from the baby, the competition was always going from little things. For example, both like to read a book, like a toy ... at the same time. Behind the controversy of children always lurking jealousy, emotional struggles of his parents.

When the child saw that it is not the only subject that interested parents, then at least more will arise the envy. This jealousy and inevitably will put up the catch it must share the sentiment, that is he or she, I.

Computer regularly and the level of controversy will depend on a number of factors such as the age and personality of the child. The experts found that the special debate usually occurs in children under 3 years. When the child grows at a frequency of less controversy.

Should intervene?

Parents need to intervene in all the arguing of their children or not? On this point, the opinion of experts is not, let the kids handle the problems.

The first reason, even as they quarrel for toys, comic books or any thing else, you picked up the nhot should remember that while you are not related but are the underlying cause of the dispute: the kids fighting for your attention, because your feelings. If you don't, then other intervention would pour more oil on the fire.

The second is the controversy also help the children grow up. Help them learn how to protest, affirmation, negation, argue ... and lots of other things are useful for our life.

But, parental intervention is necessary when the argument goes too limited. When the children dayi'il or by fists to solve the problem, you should act. Parents need strict prohibition of all acts of violence and we resolve conflicts by other means. At this point, usually the mother will louder: "silence! !? I don't want to hear any loud arguing again... ". However it is way wrong and ineffective to solve the dispute of the children. Because surely we will hear first is you but will wait for the opportunity to continue fighting with each other.

Better be solved the problem. If the parties "involved" too excited, please wait a few minutes to calm them. Then ask each child who presented on the issue causing the conflict. The role of the parents at this time is to help the children find the General Agreement.

Give them a certain period of time, if not resolved then you make decisions but does not support comments here's your change party. For example, when they debate each other a television is to give them self to mediate, two are going to turn off the television. So then the solution will always be compromised.=