12-year-old baby still makes the family regret the wrong way of teaching children: Lessons to wake up for many parents

At the age of 12 innocent, joyful, the extremely beautiful girl finally chose to die to end her life. What causes a girl to obediently commit suicide? After finding out the reason, Bao Bao's parents have regretted their whole lives.

Every parent wants good things for their children. Parents always expect their children and always become more prominent than their parents' pride. But the way of teaching children to follow the aura outside, and always want them to lead, has made many people regret

Recently, on the social network in Nanjing, China has been shaken by a 12-year-old girl named Bao Bao who quarreled with her parents and she has come to her own death to end her life.

At an innocent age, Bao Bao chose to end his life, when he learned about the reason why Bao Bao's parents had to regret it for life.

It turned out that Bao Bao was threatened by his classmates and forced her to pay. The money you call is a 'protection fee'. Bao Bao was so frightened that she did not dare to tell her parents to steal money from her parents and give it to you. When Bao Bao's parents found out they were extremely angry and hit Bao Bao with words that made Bao Bao hurt. She decided to leave home and look for death.

Things will be easier if parents understand their children and are a base for their children to trust secret concerns. Between Bao Bao and his parents, there is a distance, so he dares not tell his parents what he is afraid of, but instead resolves with wrong actions.

Experts recommend how to teach children without whips

Learn how to understand: Parents first learn to understand their children, not to deal with the conflict by whipping, but instead of teaching, take them to a quiet place, help them calm down. It is not a punishment but an opportunity for you to understand your child better.

Help your child : Understand your child and then find ways to help guide your children to solve your problems in the most thorough way. When parents open their hearts to help children, they will receive their trust.

Connecting before making a request : Before you give instructions or requirements to your child, give them time to get to know you, awaken the desire to learn from them. Remember that children will behave wrongly when they feel negative about themselves and not connected with others.