3 things parents should not do if they want their children to be independent and responsible

1. Answer for me

When children are asked by adults, parents should not be afraid to talk miscellaneous, but have a habit of answering for their children. Parents do so not to protect their children, but to deprive the child of their right to grow and develop. If not actively answered, over time children will become passive, limited language skills and less flexible thinking.

Therefore, parents should encourage their children to answer, which will help them be more brave. If the question is too difficult, it can be cleverly suggested, creating a comfortable space so that children do not panic or be ashamed.

2. Control your child's savings

Every child has his or her own savings, lucky money, or gifts from relatives. If parents seize the whole, will make children feel lost confidence, stuffy because of excessive control too. Therefore, parents should give some children, teach them how to manage and spend science. It is even possible to apply the method: paying your child every time you finish an outstanding housework will help your child to appreciate his labor.

3. Do homework and chores for children

Children tend to have difficult times when they often face problems with their parents. However, do not be afraid of trouble and take the pen to do the homework for you. Instead, take the time to carefully read the question, asking if your child understands the problem. Help me to untie each knot until I understand the problem. Doing your own homework will help your child gain confidence, self-esteem and develop their intelligence in the most positive way.

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