3 things parents should not scold if they do not want children to be self-deprecating

'You are not equal to a corner of people's houses'

Nobody likes being compared to others, especially children. Being put on a scale with other children will make them feel inferior, even generating resentment towards their parents and others. Parents, do not make bad academic achievements, or be naughty and foolish to scold your children, compared to "people's children". Instead of doing something so futile, teach your child how to face and the right method to overcome their mistakes and shortcomings.

'I wish I had never given birth to you.'

Many parents in anger have accidentally uttered this harmful sentence in front of their children, even if they did not mean it in their heart. After that, parents may forget it, but children will remember it forever. Even sad to think that his parents did not love him, gradually became distant. Then, when facing difficulties and uncertainties, children will never come to you to talk, ask for advice, it is easy to be dragged and dragged by you.

"Stop crying now!"

According to psychologists, parents force their children to stop crying, which is squeezing their true feelings. This approach does not make children stronger, but more vulnerable and panic. It can even lead to post-young children being tense or feeling out of control uncontrollably, becoming distorted because of personality. So instead of scolding your child: "Stop crying now", parents simply let the child cry satisfied. When no one is comforted, no one cares, the child will stop.