4-year-old baby was expelled by 3 kindergartens for the reason that everyone was startled

Ms. Ma, a living person in China, shared her experience when she regretted it was too pampered for her 4-year-old grandson, causing her to be spoiled and unable to teach. Although he was only 4 years old, the boy was expelled from 3 kindergartens.

According to three Ma, her grandchildren is a more developed child than her peers, but is completely dependent on adults. Babies cannot do anything for themselves including personal needs such as toileting, self-feeding, or urinating in the right place. Besides, her personality is not sociable with her peers. What your child wants to do as he or she wants to do is often stubborn, if he is not happy with who he will bite.

When Ms. Ma's grandchildren went to the first kindergarten to endure the boy for one semester; the second school lasted 1 week and the third school immediately rejected it when interviewing from the screening round.

Ms. Ma worried that the child had a problem, so she went to the hospital to check. The results show that her grandchildren's communication has been delayed a lot. The baby's ability to exercise, language, cognitive or develop social ability is not average, even by a 3-year-old.

Doctors concluded that Mrs. Ma's grandchildren developed slowly in all aspects and the reason was because her family was too pampered.

Ms. Ma confided only because she loves her so much, just if he likes what is immediately met. The family has deprived the child of the opportunity to think and motivate the child to lose the ability to learn and adapt to the surrounding environment. Because of that, the boy could not integrate with the kindergarten environment and the teachers could not "bear" it.

So how do children adapt to school?

Stable schedule: Parents practice for their children to work on a routine, stay active, get enough sleep, exercise regularly and have a balanced diet to create a healthy body .

When a child works on a stable schedule of activities that allow him to know exactly what to do in the next period, thereby establishing a sense of inner rhythm and creating a sense of security that can be predictable. Parents can refer to the school's calendar before sending their children to school so that they can get acquainted and practice in the correct way.

Taking care of yourself : With a baby, adapting to your surrounding environment will help your child improve his or her behavior. And help children grow in new environments.

According to experts, for children 3-4 years old can use spoons or chopsticks to feed themselves, using separate toilets. They can wear clothes or shoes with help, can arrange books and toys.

For children to have the opportunity to learn: Parents often have the mentality of petting their children, so they always seek to cover their children too carefully. But it is the encirclement that makes him unsuitable for the collective life, loneliness, not knowing how to communicate with teachers and not even willing to play with other children.