Code of Conduct HELP CHILD UNDERSTANDING ABOUT SEX, teach your children to protect themselves before it's too late

Please honestly answer the secret things

The first thing parents should keep in mind when talking to children about gender is: honest, not lying. Primary school children are very naive, so I put my full faith in my parents, including questions about gender. Lies will gradually lose faith and no longer ask you about this sensitivity.

Do not avoid sex questions from children

Prepare yourself to not be shocked when your child asks you about the genitals on your body. Use appropriate terms to describe fertilization and fertility. Primary children are naive, so choosing words that are easy to understand makes them easy to grasp.

Talk about gender when you are 4 years old

You may think that it is too early, but statistics show that the most harassed subjects among children under 12 are . 4 years old! Although they cannot express their thoughts well, at this age children are aware of the world. They understand more than adults think.

Teach children about private parts names

When you start teaching children about body parts like eyes, ears, mouth, hands, feet, . why do you avoid teaching children about 'private' parts? Say the names of these parts to your child, their correct names, not funny names you make. That is the exact name the child needs to know if someone has violated the area. Then the child is aware of what is happening.

Teach children that privacy is a very special place

When talking about this, the most important thing is that you should not create feelings of stigma, discomfort, shame on these parts. Just emphasize that it is a special and very special area for children, not anyone else. Only when necessary, such as medical examination and hygiene allow the responsible person to touch. than.

Teach children to respect their bodies and master them

Let your child have the right to say 'No' to any forced behavior of an adult who does not feel comfortable. When a stranger tries to embrace a child they don't like, let the child be allowed to say 'No' and better express what the child is saying to the other if necessary.

Explain to children no one can abuse others

Teaching children to understand the principle that no one has the right to force or abuse you, especially in private areas, is very important. Even let children understand and apply that principle to their parents. Children will know how to reflex to protect themselves and then tell them back without shyness or fear.