Dealing with young or hitting and biting you

Why baby back hitting and biting you?

To bite attention

From the 18 to 24 months of age, babies can bite, to draw the attention of parents. Indeed, she realized that there was no way faster to be parents interested by biting into his mother's calves or biceps "chewing" the baby's older sister. Fight, bite, texture, scraping but not polite, but with the baby, the effect is to be adult attention just this afternoon I Lu.

Expressed frustration

New baby know go frustrated when my parents say "no" or the other baby to share toys. Baby bite, scratch to demonstrate that babies are uncomfortable.

The selfishness of the baby

Most of the new baby is "keep"-don't like to share. If multiple baby same files on a toy then of course, the conflict "benefits" will happen. When you join a group for baby, parents should delineate toys as well as games to help the kid. If you know little about to win a toy, baby redirects by saying: "come here, play this same mother would"

Stop the habit like biting, hitting children

For many years, started working in a short circuit or baby bites is just temporary Vice. When baby gets older, usually at over 3, baby better distinguish those acts wrong, thanks to language skills and the ability to regulate emotions. Even so, the National District still advised that parents should work out the baby from the start. Let's quickly remind babies with serious tone and rigorous enough. At the same time, try to apply some of the strategies below:

Use sign language

If your children don't know clearly says, please teach me the basic sign language to children can describe his feelings.

Recognize your child's emotions

Next, make your arms and say: "I know I feel very bad. I can feel that way, fine, but then someone hitting action is not acceptable ". Tovah Klein, Director of the Barnard College Center for Toddler Center Development (USA) advises you should help your child understand that you have such feelings is understandable, but there are other ways to "handle" that emotion.

Do not try to explain if you have too little

Don't ask my thought: "I will see how if someone hit you?" Toddlers are not mature enough on wisdom or emotions to be able to empathize with other people, Klein said. Instead of trying to explain to you, please take out the reasonable penalty-if I hit you on the playground, you will take your home, if your child bites, I will not be playing her stuff again.

Reading to your child

The children's book mentions the young guest map or bite problems you are great choices. As such, you will receive the message "you are not all right" that the message that comes from a different source of objective, not only from you.

For the user to bite the teeth

That's the plastic, fits the child constantly for a something into his mouth. You can tell the tooth under bite and carry each want to bite something, then take it out. If you only know to go, let the teeth bite in your pocket and give it to your child every time to bite someone's arm.

Help your child regain composure

If you don't stop doing themselves or other children injured and unable to keep calm, sit cross-legged, squeezed to the sit on the Palm and face the same direction with you. So you will not be able to bite or do you hurt, Fran Walfish, author of The book The self-aware Parent said. Then, calmly told the children: "when you stop the negative behavior, new mother me". When you see the calm back, make for you the praise.

Please be consistent

Need to react with the baby in a strict way each kid rampage fight, bite or scratch, texture. Gradually over time, the kid can learn for themselves after many "bad" like that. For example, the baby finally also realized if the dog boy will be fine, mom and baby gifts are not a boy anymore.-Paste votes For ages 2-3, teach your baby to consistency over time is an effective way.

Do alternative fun

When the babies are about negative behavioral outbreaks, you can come up as lions ROAR or as cat calls for "Meow". Mimicking the animals can immediately attract new baby know go because it just funny, just creepy. She is hesitant not understand her mother to do then this opportunity, you redirect for baby to other activities.

Know the cause of the baby's ugly

Baby biting, kicking, beating, sexual harassment may be caused by tired, do not get enough sleep or sleeping noonday night not right now. Baby can also bite mom when the hungry baby. So, give baby enough snacks packed and adhere to strict sleep hours. Don't forget to baby go play outdoors to mind the baby comfortable.=

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