Do to the baby not jealous of you

1. Prepare the spirit "pick you up" for the

3-4 months before birth, tell the truth sincerely and frankly about the upcoming appearance of a baby in the House. This is the best time because she can identify the changes: the womb enough to to accommodate a baby in there, baby bicycle and are moving in the womb. Should not say more soon because the baby will probably forget this momentous event.

In parallel with the announcement, you should help your child visualize these changes can happen when the baby was born, the influence of that change to the service (including positive and negative).

Encourage your child to put many questions related to children and tell your parents know how I feel. Often reassure you that nothing can affect the love of parents for children.

2. Maintain the Groove of living

Try not to make a child's life change much when there are babies. Work out Groove going potty and go home for the child before birth.

3. Explain what will happen

2 weeks before birth, you prepare your child in advance about upcoming absence of parents. The same "discussion" with the obvious about what's coming because although you may only in 1-2 days, but the babies will still very sad and miss you.

If intending to invite relatives, relatives, or the maid to you when you go, the better to welcome them to the family earlier in the same 1, 2 weeks. If it is, let the child to the hospital after the second baby was born, the baby to feel themselves is also important part of a "large family" from this sacred moment.

4. Interest and taking the time for the young

Try not to baby accounted for most of the time. Please take the time to caress, attention to the child. Try to maintain the habit of playing, or read stories to children as before.

5. For older baby care

Ask your child to bring towels for children, "push" for children to wander (of course you still control key). If you want to be carrying children, try to be doing that. Can the baby sit up bench, stats and then set up side pillows please. Remember to watch carefully to make sure nothing dangerous.

6. Accept the attitude of jealousy or behavior of the child's retreat

Please accept these types of behaviors of young babies but always insisted that young was great, good and intelligent than the baby much as: knowing how to behave, dress and singing ... Tell the child that the baby, or cry, and eat like the child at birth. Growing up, she will cry and like little children for now.

7. Welcome the attitude pissed

At first the young can be very eager to receive the baby, but a few weeks later children may think that baby is taking his mother and began harassing witnesses. You need to be patient and understand the psychology of the child. Tell the child that the child has been many things over the baby because the child has to know how to help her mother, while trying to care for the baby grew quickly to play with the child.

8. Handle when baby me

Don't be surprised if your older child or throw something into the fight. If large enough, kids will also work in this "delicate" than by working out like a "crash" accidentally.

This is normal behavior and not hard to get out. Please stop step by step. The only time you and your child, please motivate baby revealed the emotions angry, jealous. Tell the kid out there feeling like that doesn't mean eat but because of the feeling that that is definitely not you hit okay.

When kid me, you should not ridicule or Bangladesh, so baby boy spank "revenge" children in the absence of the mother. The best way, please say now: "you do so is bad. The baby has hit a bigger child, and children ". For little time to think about his actions.

By baby can not accept the teachings of the mother, the best for a few weeks then you should "Beware", keeping an eye on small children, take off most of the colors, heavy precautions large kid me. Try not to big kid see precautions, avoid giving it thought his parents believe.

9. Assigned for both

Look for the opportunity to make two kids must "cooperate" with each other to accomplish a purpose of the work. For example, you tell the child the same stacking toys into the basket, help each other prepare clothes go out of Park.

When babies play together, let's ensure that non-game rivalry, for example to play baby "cooking rice", "selling" Pho, play doctor examinations or player teacher.

10. Quarantine when needed=

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