Handling bad young 11

1. Talking Drum does not

When kids say no child is not yet understand about the code society on the decency and respect for others and show haste negligent in communication. Talking drum does not reduce the effectiveness of communication and dialogue will probably not respond. Therefore, the need to remind the child right from the start when a child is this expression. Teach children to say slow, slow, look at the opposite when it comes, send properly significant, to say the subject. To teach children to greet people from knowing when new young said.

2. the resentment

When older resentment, we can temporarily ignore, do not confront the child and also does not meet the needs of the child. Wait a while after the child calmer, we ask children to reason and explain to children. Can indicate to children how to express exasperation or demand that out by his words calmly. Should recommend, analyze and exchange with older children is the child was upset and should not repeat.

3. Steal

When kids steal means children have a family that needs not met. So, to find out what young and motivated would lead to behavioral thieves. Help children understand that young children should focus on learning, healthy fun; so with what his family there that shouldn't be spoiled of excessive spending. If the behaviour continued should also speak to the people in the family to help the child. The money also should take courses go, not so young to get easily. Should teach children to how reasonable spending from small.

4. Telling lies

To the younger lied a few times will not habit forming. Therefore, to teach children from small is always honest, lying is not good in any case. If the child make a mistake or do something wrong should also encourage children to speak out and explain to the child was wrong here and there, and for the young to find the fix. Adults must do a mirror, always honest, truthful living, not to say lying, devious.

5. Moaning crying

The young are usually not independent, or requires, not mastered emotion and often emotional weakness. Meanwhile, I young split out, for a quiet sit alone to heal back. Then ask the child what needs. If found, we will meet and talk to the child understand the next should not do so, the need to speak out and speak with a loved one. If the child needs that we have not yet met the children's interpretation must also be understood.

6. lazy Kids

In contrast to the hyperactive condition, have the baby proved to be lazy in all activities. Maybe it's because children have poor health, weakness led to the slow response of long habit gradually, but was due to the care, pet overly of mom or he/she makes almost no kids have to do something even the self care themselves.

Can the original lazy, which is simply the wake late, Mike-brushing, washing face, bathing ... will gradually go to the lazy to fold the curtains, bedding and clothing. Since then, the child will be lazy in the cleaning of toys, toiletries in the room ...

Step by step, without impact measures and timely intervention, the degree of the child's growing lazy until her parents, relatives feel no longer tolerate it anymore. At that time the impact to adjusted will very difficult, can cause psychological damage, or create obstacles in the family relationship, it is difficult to change when the child is larger.

7. Argue adults

If so long will shape against the stubborn, hot-tempered, conservative. Upon seeing the child, one should not argue to the young child that should trouble generally calm, listen to adults, then children would say. When young said, we must also listen to the children we also respect the older.

To listen young says is a necessary skill in communicating their parents to understand the aspirations of the young Center and also taught the child how to communicate are culture and efficiency. After listening to young voices, we analyze for the young understand this should, should not, why so ... The child will feel interested parents, love and will behave reasonably when heard adults say.

8. Nhõng nhẽo and melodies

Children want to be interested, there is the nagging question, want to be more prominent in other people. When the kids are small, people see that's lovely, but when growing, young still so will create a preferred form of personality, selfless, like more outstanding people, can make everyone around uncomfortable. So, from small children we should conform with the economic conditions of families, consistent with age and for the young people around. The parents need to pay attention to the words and the tone of the child, when found not fit to remind the baby says again by the new right.

9. Rushing and rush

The child often impatiently hard waiting order, said cutting the word of others, not careful, or forgotten ... should cause errors, mistaken or had to do several times to complete one job. Therefore, must teach children to count even, calm in the eat said, jobs, follow the order of families, school classes, good listener, know wait, make concessions. When assigning to the child should guide for the older order of steps done, check whether the child has just finished school or have just done. If the child is missing or errors are indicated for children to know and make it back to the right.

10. Yawn, cough does not cover

Explain to children if not cover coughs, yawn would be people for is not polite and can spread the infection to other people when the kids were sick. Teach children the habit of hand cover coughs, yawn from when young. If the child is not yet done, we must always remind the child. Adult itself also always true will is the way that children learn most effectively.

The education of young children is the Foundation for the formation of character and personality of the child. When discovered the damaged, disabled child's bad, parents should quickly help the baby to have a boy when older.

11. the selfish Child

With children below 3 years then not need selfish issues posed, or rather the attitude only knows itself at that time was called AI (love myself) rather than selfish (only the Add-ons, the rights for themselves). Children under 3 years of age the majority are computer AI, and that is normal.

But with the older 5-6 years, then the children have to distinguish what I already know, "ownership", has wanted the "private property" and if that doesn't work out for those limits, the child can become selfish, just know what's good, what's good for themselves without thinking of the people around.

On the one hand, parents encourage children to decide the value itself, on the other hand, the need to avoid exercise for the infection routine selfish, because when the "infected" computer is very difficult to remove. The dangerous thing is that sometimes the parent key also has a selfish attitude in life, and to that is the "wise", for the habit to know and love taking advantage of others, always find a way to play "on the muscle", only known to protect the interests of yourself and your family, despite that can cause damage to other people.=

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