His children don't lie

I myself ever temperament straight, have the stars say so and hate for those eels stye, winding. So, I also want their children later growing up would also be decent people, don't lie. Teach me honestly is not just as simple as teaching baby to hold spoons or dress shirt. It is a long process to accumulate, eventually impacting the thinking of young and formed the habit of "lie no better".

The first thing I would like to remind the mothers are raising children. That is if you do not want to lie, necessarily makes the child feel "lied is not needed". What does it mean? Baby mother regarded as friends, a baby who can tell the comfort of things without worry of being yelled at, whipped, or being judged.

I often learn about the life of the child, the child's psychological and numb with baby things are very comfortable. I can't hate her that something: for example, I hate your girlfriend or extreme hate the electronic games ... The main things that makes older superiors when confided to his mother. Even when the damaged and I'm fine baby by not giving the baby toy like. Of course, my son is very frustrating and annoying. With other kids, they have a nasty look, have hate, bad parents in the beginning thought. But with my kids, I always ask "why are you angry?". Baby can hate his mother, annoyed with the mother at the time, but the kid always knew that the baby can say those things with me. And it is important, I'm not angry. I only say "Yes! Parents understand ". If you say that it bothered me, that my sister turns out isolated mixed, damaged. You will never have a second time, I told him about the feelings, the thoughts of the baby.

The second thing, which is to never create conditions for children to lie. I can say that my sister will protest that "who facilitate the lie ever". However, sometimes we inadvertently "forced" her to lie without. Deliberately questioning the things we know will answer is a situation easily leads to lie in the child. I never told you "you've composed books for tomorrow?" while I know he's not yet done. This is like we're pressed to confess and, naturally, it will be easy to push children into situations like to lie. Instead, I said "mom you straight yet to compose books!" or, "I put the folder list for the mom test.". teach your child.

The last thing, but equally important, that is: the parents must model. Don't lie and don't lie to the child. Most school children is through observing and imitating their parents rather than through a book on the theory of ethics or civic education.

I see so many sisters that lying is sometimes just to good for you. That some lie sometimes harmless. In my opinion, is we don't know, do not know the answers to the previous questions, correct the situation with the child. I insisted, I myself have never lied to you. Even the simple sentence like "mom away for a moment and then on the right" but after that, the sisters go to every hour can also cause she's not my mother's trust as well as belief in the importance of telling the truth. I'm listed here lie the "classics" that mothers to be harmless: Lie The truth This yummy not bitter! This drug extremely bitter and difficult to drink Of course, Daddy know everything, Father did not know why the plane was flying. Mom goes a little market and then on. Parents can go to market, supermarket, shopping, meet friends to 2.3 hours. If you don't eat/sleep ... then (someone) will come. Never had this happen

I can suggest the way smarter to lie above

1. "this will help the hurt and tired".

2. "I'm not sure anymore. Themselves in the same lookup please? ".

3. "Parents must go out now and do not know how long it will take. But I'll call you ".

4. "eat vegetables so important because your body needs these substances in vegetables. If not you may be constipated ".

Lie so harmless teasing my outrageous joke too, we all should be limited. Small children do not yet have the knowledge and experience. Baby will not distinguish a saying of her mother and the real or joke and always etched it in thought, trust it. Consequently, the mother needs more prepared and never lie to children. It is the first factor to educate a man honestly after this.=

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