I didn't know know ... masturbate

Ms. h. (parents preschool m. Hanoi) family said "I know young children also can masturbate but the idea only new boys. When she saw the new girl in school preschool a few days back there was the little toáy expression enclosed regions, themselves bewildered immensely ".

The same fears that worried with Ms. h. is the sister bar (hoan Kiem, Hanoi). Her son, even as new Bars only 20 months old, did not speak. But the very portable or inverse "of you", is since she set the bar for the BIM removal. "I don't know how because just stutters out was the cry," Ms. Thanh lament.

Small children can know, know, know, know rice potty ... and of course, the baby will also know curious about his closed region. Many parents see you know the nose look like it because it is the expression of the understanding, so awe-inspiring, but when caught small children less than 2 years know hand groped "by you". This is completely wrong. Scientists have recorded the activity stimulating mechanicals of the region even as new baby girl 4 months of age or status of excitement through stimulation of the boys are less than 1 year old.

Instead of yelling at the mine and makes you feel bad, steaming with its actions, the smart parent's conduct in this case should be:

Do not panic

Masturbation is a perfectly normal action. It does not cause any physical damage, be dangerous to health, or for masturbation means your child will turn into a a sex-mad. Masturbation in children is not as sex with adults because children do not know what is the sex.

When doing masturbation, the kid simply feel happy and comfortable. "A child can masturbate alone to reach orgasm, when completing the baby can also panting, red face ... no different than adults. But absolutely nothing need not worry about that. "child psychology specialist Zweiback famous once said.

Of course, like anything else, what's too much is also not good. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, if your child constantly masturbation or too much, it could be a sign your baby is feeling anxious, nervous or not properly concerned parents. At this time, the mother needs to come to the assistance of the physician.

Just ignore it

Many parents try to teach their children or that the place is closed to private, only you were touching and strangers or even doctors, parents like to touch also need the consent of the child. Doing this completely accurate to prevent sexual abuse. However it doesn't work with children below 3 years of age.

"My private Place" with children below 3 years with absolutely no meaning whatsoever. The parents directed my attention to this area only as a curiosity and attention to it. This is the best way to see it go

Diversion of the child

Young masturbate more because your baby bored, hands free and "what to do". If the mother to the baby's hands are always busy, I will have no time to "go direct" in the local zone. Such as buying new toys for children to play, tell me a story to laugh or talk with your ... This makes the child has no chance to masturbate. The healthy, fun activities will gradually correct the bad habits.

Don't tell me masturbation is bad

Also do not try to tell the young kids do is bad, not good.  If the baby to feel guilty when exploring your body, or feel that what is dirty or damaged, the baby will probably combine sexual feelings or exciting to masturbate along with with guilt and shame. This is worse than.=