Learning Japanese mothers how to revive their spirits when they fail: Although simple, but extremely effective

Help children calm down and look back on the problem

For a child, failure is always a bad thing, which can make them unhappy for a week. However, instead of telling them small things, help them calm down, and show you are a "trusted consultant" who can solve all the tough and difficult problems of young.

Let your children open up and talk about the past, express their true feelings, even cry out loud. Dare to face the bad things, admit their own shortcomings, children can be strong and confident in life.

'Do it well!' instead of 'Good luck!'

When a child starts to do something, especially after a frustrating failure, parents should instead say, "Good luck," and say, "Do well." Japanese mothers always appreciate the success of their children by doing their best instead of luck. They value hard work rather than natural talent. Therefore, they always try to encourage children to constantly work hard and try their best when doing anything, big or small.

"Failure is mother's success". Even if your child fails today, even continues to fail, if they have tried their best, they have the right to be proud of it. The outcome of winning or losing does not matter, as long as the child becomes strong, confirming the quality and value of the child is extremely valuable.