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DR. Vu Thu Huong, Psychology faculty Faculty of education, University of Hanoi pedagogical Outlook, there are many reasons why children with gender deviance, next to congenital causes, most children with gender deviance is because parents lack of sex education for children.

According to the analysis of Dr. Huong, firstly because psychologically, parents like the daughter but birth son or vice versa. Instead of consent, accept with real gender of the child then many parents to satisfy their yearning hearts have "forced" her son wearing a skirt and back have parents for daughters dressed in the style of "tom boy" mischief.

Parents should delineate the son is son or daughter from small (artwork).

Don't stop there, when older mature, many families took up the role of the girls as their responsibility as a man crucified, hanging the fan ... "If the parents push the responsibility too heavy up the children, the children will gradually appear no better expression of mentality. Because when given the responsibility, the child will feel the burden. Many children do not escape the burdens that have ruined themselves, "DR. Incense share.

She also spoke of the case of female students in the class she teaches throughout the day left school just because dad was ill, she was ill; a woman who was quite old but still not get married just because her mother died soon ... "It is the case of non-separated his personal work with the family, they felt no family themselves do not exist. The seemingly simple story he accidentally caused a strong impact to the women, turning them into sexual deviance ", TS Incense recalled.

A cause anymore, according to DR. Vu Thu Huong is because parents do not sex education for children. More specifically, the way parents do not clearly define child is boy or girl. "Many parents are aware of this and also want to direct children according to their gender, but especially with his completely. That's very bad, "DR. Huong insists.

She also shared, time she lived in Germany, the indigenous people of extreme importance for gender separation. When the breeze on the Germans not good like the breeze, they flashed: "my child is a daughter, she loves the guy handsome player".

Not my parents would also understand how this baby breeze is the German always insisted clear about the sex of the child, whether that child is 3 years old. And if children are gender orientations available from small, are parents interested in education will be very difficult to change sex later on.

Besides, getting a child to suffer the psychological shock when a young and mature at are also vulnerable to sexual deviance. "A woman who lived in the House, is under the witness claims beating his mother, grew up well again the scene my husband killing his wife, then that woman just like your world is also easy to understand. Or lot cases while married, get married, have children but do not satisfied with partners they can also tend to like the same person, "she explains.

"Take the new beef lo do barn"

Gender issues are extremely complex, it's one of the things parents need special attention and focus, should not bypass the issue.

Many parents brought heavy thought sex education for children, "drawing the line for running deer" (illustrated).

However, sex education in Vietnam at present still extremely limited, due to the heavily ideological parents teach children about other such sex would "draw a line for the running deer".

"Why parents when mentioning gender again just ignored must go in when books, newspapers, tape drive, advertising the boys sex photos, continue? If not the parents, the child is very easy to find out, try to reach the final destination of the desire. And so the consequences would be very large, many children also so that gender deviance "-Dr. shy-Flavor" When I open sex education class for youngsters aged 6.7 years, sizeable parents take you to school. There are parents aware of sex education is important so take you away to school, but my parents have problems such as gender or curious about adults, new parents worry school ".

According to DR. Huong, parents need to look at getting back to the issue of sex education for children and education should start from when the child is still in the preschool years. Song your parents must have a clear orientation for the sexes, always observe learn each li ever little psychological development in children. Don't leave until the last minute to hear the revealed: "Mommy" gay ", the new parents shocked by contrast, the new gold rush rush thanks to the psychological intervention expert then was too late, the other would take the new beef lo do barn.=