Not penalizing children under 2 years

Yelled not good child education methods.

Not accusing older

When exactly are lying, you should not blame the fine older now, you have a lot of ways to handle, however should avoid accusing the young right now. Let's make the older kids have to confess that I'm lying, rather than denied. Because denied ever is also the initial response of the child lie.

Don't judge right after the frustrating place

Young kids just yelled at more panic and sometimes doesn't realize is his fault.

Not a few fathers, mothers shouted, sounding, ironic or general the right when not just the what. The angry statement, panned out as soon as a natural reflex. "Shut up, stupid Kids, Bored you too".

This is in fact just makes you panic, the mistreatment of the fuselage instead of being aware of the problem. Repeat too many times also make kids "back away" his parents rather than cooperation, at the same time making the parents form bad habits, self ... say to me comfortably in any way I want to without thinking.

Best, parents should form the habit of not-side-effects-now. If the child says wrong, ridiculous or yelled at others generally, sometimes there are views about life, the deviance is also absolutely not up his voice yelled at the mine the "shut up", which needs to find the cause see older clones where, where listeners are young, there really understand what you are saying no or just talk to imitate. The suggestions, comments to my understanding is essential, but certainly not right at that.

It is more especially true with young children under 6 years of age. When they see things not yet satisfied, go down to ask children to see "what are you doing?", "how to do?", and then listen to the older expression off his ideas, whether right or wrong. Sometimes also need to urgently find ways to handle right now but let the judge back then.

Normally, if holding is calm, we will see the majority of the reason of the very young, for instance, young pulled blankets down the floor, probably because wanted as Princess or climb the table could be due to mimic his play last night was watching on television. Find out the true reason, into the story of the child, even becoming a character in the children's fantasy to the collaboration, will be better judged.

Please convey the clear message with the child clearly

Convey your message in a clear, straightforward and stolid.

Convey your message in a clear, straightforward and stolid. Your child will ignore if you repeated how dull a subject too long. Will be difficult to realize the value of a long message lines such as: "really cold outside, and you sick again recently, so I want you to wear the sweater before we go to the store". Let's say the other way: "come at you have to wear sweaters and baby will understand the core issue that you say easier. And don't convey something similar to a question if you really had no choice. "Time to climb up the seats of my son!" have more impact than "climb up your seat, OK?"

Giving warning

Give your child a few words before a major change occurs, especially when going to sleep that is attracted to the toy or a compelling program. You tell me, has ever gone to bed and the need to wash hands, face and go to bed ...

If the child is under 2 years old do not sanction

Under 2 years old, young virtually unknown etiology analysis and results, just curious to explore, not to think that the work will last as if his mischief that way.

After being yelled at, punished, the child also can not understand anything about the reason leading to the anger of the parents. If the penalty or, yelled at, I will just remember feeling upset, resentful, hurt after being yelled at, punished. Will feel very body bags.

Long ago, fears that her body bags will cause children to become shy, timid, alienating her parents. Sometimes we think, the immediate effects have yelled, but it was by fear rather than young children already know and think over.

And after yelling at young parents will also always have the feeling of regret, regret missed yelled at his children.

When young on 2 years, sanctions the principle of causality

Please teach the causes and results of the work you do.

The principle of human-result means for children to see clearly the causes and results of the work you do. And must be found immediately. For example, if you don't clean up the toy, then my mom won't let me get out to play anymore. I can cry or food but I have to say is do. If you throw food, you will have to go hungry in the after party. If you don't take a bath, the next day will not be out to the Park to play soccer.

If the parents are not able to give the child "too late", because it affects the health, life, the foremost need persuasion methods implemented by: young eyes, expressing love . For example, the child is not subject to wear sunblock, not taking drugs ... parents need to look at the older, explain to the child, the child with love, makes the child touched and do it for mom please.

However, the older deliberately did not cooperate with the very simple things like that, in addition to related to the hobby, such as color, size (need to respect the preferences of the child, to give your choice) ... could be because children with inhibition, of not being comfortable with the process of mobilization, born in warm memories and deliberately did not cooperate. So can think about creating conditions to promote the comfort of their lobbying power.

Each child will have a separate personality, physical. And how to process in each case, the circumstances when you do the wrong thing, and cannot be the same. However, the general rule is to respect you, love you and understand the desires, aspirations under the rule of his son.=