Parenting time: Admit conditions, lack of knowledge

Preschool teacher's story

She Mai, nursery school teacher quality in Thai Ha Street Hanoi, since she had 18 grandchildren: layers, each of you carries a psychological characteristics, different personality. In the family, the children are brought up in full physical conditions but apparently I would also have "problems".

I then too you have sluggish buzzing urge others; have you overweight, anorexia, you stunted; have you slow language development or signs of autism, "real partnership" with the teacher and you. The fish, I have almost 4 years still don't know eat, only eat flour or porridge.

Unfortunately, no parents money invested for your child right from when I was a kid.

Exchange with other parents, Tomorrow she noticed, was due in the family you don't care the right way. For example, there are only small baby trolley or are grandparents, who helps the closing on hand, not holding to the ground to freely run jump for fear the baby dirty or falls hurt. Therefore, that kid walking slow and shy.

Some other kid because his parents are too busy, from morning to night, she only stayed with her maid, she let you watch tv all day, prompting the boy slowly said, slow intellectual development. Many mothers back to the method of parenting by the book, the meal would also have to full volume, as instructed, to crush the root cellar or small child to absorb! Eat more but lack of campaigning makes childhood obesity, or have the older poor digestion, the birth of appetite, fear of eating, the Castle gradually into malnutrition.

Nutrition experts recommend: children must be more active to energy consumption, be reflective of hunger and appetite. The child needs to eat the delicious new meal. During chewing, the room are secreted and digestive stimulant that is help children the best nutritional absorption.

So, when the kids were growing enough teeth, should eat rice, does not extend the time to eat the dough, eat porridge, also should not "cramming", getting plenty of food while young children needs. Children anorexia, anorexia nervosa sometimes just because the reasons so simple. Improper care can cause children to suffer from psychological diseases such as Autism, depression.

She Mai said, have put mother daughter 4 years old to apply and say: "my house is not lack of money. My children must be educated in the best schools, the most modern. I've learned over four high-quality preschool, but only a few months back had to move school because I find repugnant to me... ". After exposure and try the test, experts found the baby girl has a sign of depression and autism due to bear too much pressure.

Parents come to school "parents"

In our country, most people left the perception skill of motherhood is a natural function is available, is not required. They often teach me as feelings, do not know what is right or wrong. Today, the young parents were aware that, want to do good parents also need to "learn", it should have the knowledge to parenting effectively in terms of tight time.

Ms. Mai Loan, work in Hanoi, the Association has a son 3 years and a half, said his sister was very embarrassing and met much trouble the first time motherhood, for example not a "deal" with mother-in-law faction (including claims her husband and her sister's husband). "I raised 5 children should people that have followed the books."-mother sister spouse said. But according to her, the type of parenting "natural home" mother's sister's husband is no longer appropriate with the social conditions and characteristics of children today.

Moreover, the "growing up like weeds" also left the sequelae that following this new "sick". For example, the husband of her sister's very lack of knowledge and problem-solving skills, especially communication skills to behave badly, it caused not a few obstacles and limiting your success in life.

Lack of experience, she had to learn parenting knowledge through books, then into childhood, lamchame.com website to share with other mothers. Also, I know there's a psychological specialist group open courses to support parenting skills, she associated join. Unbelievably, there are parents also needs to "go to school" like her sister.

These are really useful and courses needed for parents, they learned parenting methods just science, just simple and find answers to their problems from the experts that are not always found in books.

A large motivation for making the fathers, busy mothers go back to work or other concerns to participate in courses on parenting skills, the main progress is seen of his children-his most precious asset.=