The article 'considered' should not do in front of kids

1. Lie

You're coming with kids and traffic police were holding back because of the crossed red lights. To reduce crime, you get a reason to fold into the hospital because the baby House you are seriously ill. Obviously, the kid home you'll know that's not true and you inadvertently taught him how to lie to other people. Baby will consciously: The lie is not harmful and there is no problem when myself tell lies.

2. Keep a secret with his wife

You hide your wife for you go eat fast food and whispered to me: "you don't need to know we did sneak out to eat little fries." You might think his deceit is harmless and you even think there's a secret only the father knows is going to create more coherence father. However, in reality, you are the proof for the child that the story lie his wife is okay and you are off and the role of the mother.

3. your life in front of the reviled

Call the husband or wife by the words vulgar, hard of hearing, a mad and threatening you life before children can negatively to child psychology. When witnessing this, the child can live in fear, running or looking to the dangerous ways of coping such as drinking, using drugs and think there will be no problem if they also treated with husband/wife as her parents did.

4. Sarcasm, teasing your child

Psychological experts have confirmed the sarcasm, teasing the very negative impact to the child's spirit is very small. Children from three years old has started to be aware of the value itself. When adult joke funny type of deliberately lowered, such as: wearing bad, rotten, big shit still suck mom ... or assign the pair left, the child has to feel not respected right from this. Some children will sorrow that climb into a corner to cry, some children will argue to protect themselves.

At this point, usually adults intentionally teasing, willfully imposes his opinion makes the child can not find the reason for the return. The more you feel inhibited and easily have drastic response by the attitude or the sentence says that adults deem outrageous, ridiculous. Although older response how it job index joke, ironic youngsters will also lead to the child feels helpless and inferiority.

5. Losing composure

Quite many parents do not keep the calm and mild when the baby's education. Remember, if you connect that the boy only fear you not self-conscious form fixes. One more thing you need to remember is that don't punish the baby when you do not restrain ourselves which should continue exchanges with the baby when you are calmer.

6. Talking bad about his previous teachers

Suddenly, you remember about a mentor of his former teacher that have some Vice. You tell with you and think that it's harmless. However, the child will assume that his parents are not adhering to the old teachers and can be with all the other teachers. The child will also shape the attitudes do not respect their teachers as their parents did.

7. Say bad parent of young children

Regardless of how you think about your husband/wife of the current mate, even when young likely also do not have a good relationship with your parents, you also never expressed a lack of respect to the other in front of the child. This is the rule of thumb that those three stepmother to remember. Whether the child has said his parents hate, you should also understand that it is only because the child gets hurt.

8. Demand for yours

Should never be what you want to be yours, though just the toy at the supermarket or a game disc or things map that you have to spend the whole week shopping new wages are. Meet the demands of older only makes them become naughty.

Many fathers mothers believe that denying the request will cause them to find a way to oppose. However, children need to be aware of and recognize the reality of how we got to and value for money as well as work hard labor. If your parents are always ready to open for each time the child crying, moaning, only demonstrate the kids understand that the money and the more important physical and emotional experience of meaning. The children will also think, they don't need to make money or labor to get the stuff you want.

9. You spend more time with the ipad

If you feel it is good when your child can use the phone on the age 6 or could play the computer proficiency Panel before it goes then you just "hug" your ipad all day was to follow.

However, if you want the child spent his early life on the book or the intellectual games such as Lego, or join the rewarding outdoor activities, then please reduce the amount of time you use the technology before the baby toys can be a "copy".=

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