The lesson taught the parents should apply in 2014

You'll be at a stalemate but be generous with yourself

With the child are always changing, sometimes within just a few hours, even a few minutes, a few seconds, you can turn into the different mothers, fathers every day. You will have those days, fun moments and the bad moments, days. You will also have all good choices and decisions have not been good. You can also will do a few things not yet properly, or a lot of things wrong in the parenting. But be generous with yourself because you always love you and need you despite what happened.

You would also be doing something wrong-so don't worry about it

Parent means that you will have great moments-but they only occur when you are sitting alone in the disengaged ... toilets. The rest is going to be messy moments both physically and mentally. Not all of the parenting experience are beautiful. That's downright normal.

For your child to eat with all the love

Each of us – those who are parents can have different ways of feeding the baby but more than most of us are for your child to eat with all love and we have tried to choose the way that suits individual circumstances and his choice.

Let a child 3 years old is climbing the tree

Children can learn a lot from the things that parents fear as high, played with water, climbs climbs the tree, use the sharp ... Our instincts-the people who do the parents are trying to protect are safe. But the way the most important safe guard you can bring children, let them be rubbed with the risks.

Don't give your child childhood

Every child can go to school, learn to speak, learning to read and learning how to do the math in his own way, never "urge to retire" child's childhood. That's not something the child will say, go and read better.

Sometimes you also need to learn How to live slow

Don't ever say with the sentence: "hurry up! We do not have the time to do that. " Because the phrase that means "you are no time to live". Live slow, fun enjoy the simple little pleasures of life. As such, you and you're really living.

To be selected, the decision

Children today are often less in control of his life. We will constantly be going, what to do and what to eat. Less control of your life will bring happiness to you. Let the child have the right to choose and decide. Please allow your selected the food they want in for dinner, ask the class would I want to join ... Give me the opportunity to make these decisions and what all you get is the happy smile.

Interested in the

If you actually live with their child, the child will teach you how to laugh to comfort, how to love a how deeply and how to really live.

Comfortable with the answer "no"

His family is secure first place and supporters so that we learn to say "no". If we don't learn to say "no" in my family we will not know how to say "no" anywhere. If your kids can't say "no" to their parents, they will not know how to say "no" to anyone.

Talk with your son about everything

Please let me talk to you about your girlfriend, friends, about the school. Listen to your child, please ask questions, share with me the dreams, the hope and the other concerns. Do not just the child's parents, are close friends.

Talk to your child about sex

When you don't want your daughter is the victim of love green beard, talk with your child from early on. This is really hard, but speak with your son to become the perpetrators even more difficult a lot. But no matter what you also need to talk openly with their children about sex.

Should record the moments with your child

The photo is not just for the child that you need to make both yourself. These photos will speak up at you and the children of the same jokes, the same love, the time experiences, discover and feel sad at all ...

And finally, you are a good mother father than you think

You can doubt very many things but one thing you never suspect it is: "You are not perfect". This is trivial. Your kids, too. That means no one can care, understand you and how you are doing.

2. What are the mistakes to avoid

Don't keep calm

Although the actions of the angry parents do, but please refrain from again, not be allowed to teach children when it is resentment. Generically, yelled at, swearing, losing when teaching your child inadvertently encouraged the behavior of children in relation to family, friends, such as yelling, resentment, violence ... Instead take time. And when would have seen really calm, balance then please frankly, Wen exists talk to your parent's words, when will this.

To hit a

Hit the only liberation of the anger of parents that do not reach the goal of teaching children. By then, you will understand that people solve conflicts, or conflicts by force. Remember that parents are teaching children rather than enforcing power.

Contradiction

The same behavior of the parents back expressing two different attitude with two different treatment will find it hard to understand and not "mind, password recovery".

For example, once mom and dad laugh when I say nonsense, other times you yelled at and apply repair form then you will not understand what is right is wrong. The best you should set out the rules and the rules strictly.

Bribe the

If parents give their promises a reward when the Guide for you to follow his advice, I can think of for doing wrong, then correct the do the right thing will be the reward. While parents desire the action right from the first.

The fine is incorrect crimes

When you accidentally break something in a House, my parents yelled at the mine and spanking you think you parents things than you. When your child is upset that smashing toys, yelled at the mine doesn't resolve anything, wait when both mother and baby calm down please advice and ask your child save money buying new toys.

Snap caps for children

Don't always take the hat for you, as you're not ... then the one here; "I'm a sloppy rush; the happens; the is useless ". Listen to the opinions of the soft pack or find causes before yelling at the mine, comment, criticism or punishment.

Preaching

When children do wrong, parents do not hasten preaching the values that require the need to reach. For example, when you don't do your homework, parents were immediately raised about preaching the value of education, you will not understand the purpose of your parents say much so to do, even negative reactions are (angry). Parents should talk with their children in the way of intimacy, gentle ... like you.

Compare with others

Never file the by comparison, such as: "why the same conditions like you B that does not achieve the high achievement as it; Why did your sister playing Piano that good why don't half... ". Compare the type of "warrior dance house" so make the, ti, and gene disrupt the child's relationship with the person being compared ...=