The secret teaches Japanese children

Also like the other parents of Japanese mothers often teach you through telling baby stories and fairy tales. However, the Japanese advancing one step further when they believe that the mythological world of strange thing and not thought is material and inspiration for the boundless creativity of the child later.

Try looking at daily life and we'll see: in the story have rugs and life we have airplanes in hand just as the door opened and life we have door sensor system ...

2. no rules, imposing

In particular, Japanese parents rarely attributed children as "The truth" or "why are you lazy trick", because they understand the mentality of a child "When you yelled at your baby pigs 10 times, they will call upon the ụt ịt on the 11th". When using the negative words and rules taken to yelling at children, children will get education right in being denied it.

Praise, praise specific behavior: If the just praise "his I good" then will turn into children. Not only is the child of Japanese parents that merit often praise the behavior the child did as "my son rice self truths CU" or "who's good at dressing yourself?!". When the child gets praise for a particular action, we will try to do well in the next to leave was my parents happy and praise.

Japanese parents are not afraid to praise your child but they praise very specifically as "The reading this letter right and good!"

3. Almost no TV for children

In addition to watching TV is time consuming and may cause the child to be addicted, Japanese parents sense obvious if your children watch tv too soon and too much of the brain's structure will be broken; from television broadcast audio extreme series produced from 20.000 volts voltage, causing damage to the brain before the two lobes (the part created the capacity to think). Japanese scientists also warn that this buildup in a few dozen years later will may cause leukemia as well as increase the dimension of the phenomenon of autism.

"Turn off the TV, turn on the idea" is the maxim of mouth of Japanese parents

4. Teach the word from early

According to the Japanese research, teaching the Word can make functional changes, and lead to brain structure changes according to. This phenomenon, as small as possible. When young children remember words, will get good high quality extraordinary.

Parents in Japan holds teaching letters for you right from the very early because by birth, the child is just a small animal, but when the system language and literacy signal begins operation, the child becomes the child of the human species. And they understand that this language signals system to work well, as school children closer to the time of the new born as highly effective.

5. Be patient with repeated

Other than the many who can upset when children are often asked to go ask one thing n pair, the Japanese parent not afraid to explain numerous times for their children in a problem. According to them, so that the child can become proficient job required at least 3 months. For example, when young had in mind was "a i u e o" takes at least 3 months of a new kids can read them competently.

6. memory Training

No coincidence that Japan has a lot of intellectual game for teaching the memory training. The Japanese concept of "smart people is that people remember more than others and know how to apply these things in mind it logical". So according to them, is what intelligence can exercise and get not belong to innate ability.

Right from an early age, Japanese children were exposed to the intellectual memory training game

7. full mobilization

Focus not only intellectual development, the parents are also very focused on teaching the physical exercise. Since the baby was born, his parents took note of education about all the health, advocacy, ethics, discipline, emotional. For babies up to 2, the parent has for a child to walk steadily on a daily and they split distance training into the area short of 10 m, 20 m each day.

"An intellectual sighted in the muscle", Japanese parents understand this.

8. Routine check, explore

Parents know their child's Guide to use the easy dictionary lookup for children. Use the dictionary to look up the meaning of the words, or the correct way of writing kanji. For example, when know the address but are others brought up the car goes, we feel it is difficult to remember lines.

But if self refers to the map, and then walked to ask the way then we'll remember a long time ago. Also Similarly, the children would be receiving knowledge if they find, the loss to lookup rather than being a parent teaches a passive way. Even for the older hard monotonous way of teaching Japanese, this way we can also learn exactly which never feel boring.

With the methods taught me how subtly, presume the Japanese will also help us have more useful things to apply to his own family.

9. Love and intimacy

In Japan, the parenting care what almost was "securities" for the mother. The secret of the first Japanese mother when her parenting success is establishing a cordial with his rope, based on a foundation of love and intimacy. They frequently chat, the mentality, playing, learning together.

The House was viewed as a warm nest, where the child can be mild, where the pressure of the election process, the discipline when the outside society. Also by the connection, the Japanese mother patiently teach children about moral and social manners, through persuasion, suggestions and encouragement, not by yelling or punishment.

The love of mother is also demonstrated by the way they take care of their child from these little things. For example, when for the weaning, the mother always manually search for raw materials, food processing and persistence for the food. Or like choosing diaper, the mother is always looking for the best products because of their opinions, comfort and good sleep is very important for the development of the child.

10. Teach your child not to be a burden to others

Right from a very young child, was mother to teach about the responsibility, must set to not be a burden to others. Older laptop to his personal belongings even though there are many types of packaging bags, clothes to change. From when the new, young children can wash vegetables and trash.

That parents and teachers in the school are placed in the trust of young children can do, have a responsibility and can preserve the furniture. From the age of two, children began dressing, eating, going to the toilet, brushing.

Up to 3-4 years, children sleep alone, independently when going to school and can house you play. In addition, children can help parents prepare meals, clean clothes and toys.

To 5 years of age, children can help me a lot, baby sitter home more, know behave good with you (as you borrow toys). The child begins to have the exercises are written back to the 5 things you've done to help the family. It can include preparing lunch box for parents (both cut vegetables such as potatoes, carrots), help each other serve the rice box, holding the rollers in the room after eating.=