The story 'the punctured bag' of mothers who have children with autism

"The story of Nem" is the name of a special exhibition-as the painter Le Set Diamonds confided at the exhibition – most especially in more than 200 exhibition that he participated in the introduction. By drawing out the paintings being solemnity hung on the wall for the hundreds of people who view autism as a boy of 9 years: Nem, real name Ha Family, grade 3 students. People don't see the boy appeared in the first painting exhibition of her life, but no matter. You have to communicate with people, said smiling, was dreaming, have touched the eye and the heart, not in the language of the ordinary people, but by the path, by image, by colour, by the painting.

A story of the exhibition corner Nem

The story of the colorful paintings, through the Summer with the Sun, cloud, River, fields of red. .. The painting "happy and optimistic", as commented by the painter Set ... But the story of the Nem in real life – from birth and at special 7 Rolls in Heavenly parents Nem along the grappling with autism-syndrome has made at steeped in dark colours.

"Life sometimes feeling like hell, heads face see Sun and bow down to see me. My mother was disappointed and even the negative thoughts come up fast, if you disappear I been freed. "it was his fear of her mother when her son to" Nem wearing "Autism, when simple things like eating, going to the bathroom, brushing ... also became the battle , when the normal needs of parents like to hear you say, was talking with children also become luxuries. The lives of the families with autism, "always tired, don't have time not to tired, even at this here"-Nem has honestly really like when a journalist asked at the exhibition.

Nem drawing-Photo from Nem Gallery.

"I look like a leaky bag place too much jewelry and patch the hole in that hole"-Ms. Lan Phuong said. Mothers have been focusing on the hole to patch so that the normal human being as well, also sit still, also lined up, do the exercises. The improved but still not everything is OK, but the development of the uneven and the ability to communicate is not quite up, still not pleasant and fun.

During the 7 years so this mother out of this hole to patch hole in which to my now 9 years old, the hole still riddled, parents try to patch forever still isn't finished. "At this time, a new mother To realize that: no, this is not a bag puncture, which is a very nice and very pretty mesh bag. The feeling around the world really messy and unsafe but you see out in the world with many photo fun, colorful, and creative improvisation "

Nem needs no play or share with you, but boy can sit for hours with drawing and page white paper, drunk with countless images in the head. The world in which we see the world, which we feel, Nem has looked at it as a slowly rotating and shooting footage back to life by the painting is not the word. Like is said to shed happy sad, Nem draw to transmit emotion. Like people say to sharing and empathy, Nem drawing to find the connection. And as it is said to drive away lonely, sometimes Nem draw to touching the outside world.

And parents have Nem plying everything, to boy shines as oneself-a beautiful mesh bag, not a leaky bag place the patch does not stain, and above all, is to a boy with autism as Nem can speak to the world, his own way , as a way to "have fun and upbeat"!

Does anyone understand the loneliness of children with autism?

One can understand the loneliness of a child with autism? The child cannot speak, answer questions, such as how people still share and understand each other. The child could not make friends. Children who do not enjoy a normal education. The child is evaluated as defective, just because what they don't have, while what the children have not been understood.

As my mother says, special education Rolls were too focused on the defect, which ignores the strength of the children. The children born are different, and that difference should be a precious germ particles to support flourish in love, not isolation from the community, refused to give the children the basic needs as education, is making and the pursuit of happiness.

Well as Nem, the autistic babies, disabled children, every child is a minor, the world waits longed to be loved, be open and be welcome in this vast world.

The exhibition "the story of Nem" in response to the theme "education and disability" global week of action for education for all by 2014. The exhibition by the Action Committee for the integration development (IDEA) Center for economic coordination and development community (ECCO), parent group autism organizations from 8-5 to 15-5 in 342 Nghi, Tay HO, HANOI.=